<p>Agree with goalie Dad…understand getting to know the BF, not taking a hard line with the guy but there is no reason the parents should finance anything for a 19 year old. If their original agreement was to provide room and board, plus tuition while she was enrolled in school full time and she moves off campus, etc. she is changing the rules. She is 19 years old-an adult-who can do what she wants with her life. But they do not have to finance it… DrDrewsMom, I didn’t read it that way and I would be leery of anybody someone met online. The daughter really knows nothing about his background, etc…</p>