<p>I also think it is a big deal- I feel that those who claim it is " expected" and so not a big deal- give me the impression that they act the same way when they get a big raise or promotion- that it * naturally* was coming.
well aren’t you and your children * special*.
:rolleyes:</p>
<p>It is a rite of passage for young adults, just as learning to walk is a rite of passage for most babies and riding a bike is for young children.
Or are those things * not a big deal* either?</p>