This all seems right to me.
In a related concept, I sometimes think of this in terms of peer competitions–among kids and their peers, but sometimes also parents and their peers.
By its nature, a competition needs a way of keeping score, so you can know who does better or worse. So, some sort of published rankings, the official list of colleges in the Ivy League, published admissions rates–these can essentially be chosen as the way you will keep score in your competition.
And I think the observable fact of some kids and/or parents treating college admissions as a peer competition is not necessarily strictly bound to any area, any HS, or any other definable subpopulation. But it is perhaps observably more frequent in some than others.
And again to me, none of this really counts as “fit” logic. Indeed, to me it is basically the opposite.
With fit logic, conceivably every applicant could “win” in the sense of ultimately being able to choose among comfortably affordable offers from colleges that were all carefully chosen to be particularly good fits for that individul applicant.
But if everyone has won in that sense, then there is no possibility of meaningful peer competition.
Which I would see as a good thing, but it will not be satisfying to those who want there to be a peer competition, so that they can win it.
But to end on a hopeful note, I do think there are sometimes kids or parents who start off thinking in peer competition terms, but they don’t like it, they just are taking their cues from those around them. And then sometimes when those kids or parents encounter very different views about college admissions, say in an online forum, to them it is a huge relief to know they do not have to think that way.
So I think those of us who feel that fit logic is typically a healthier and more productive attitude toward college admissions can at least demonstrate the possibility of thinking that way, and hope some people will respond positively to that.
But then to me it is counterproductive to start claiming that a kid or parent who thinks of college admissions as another opportunity to win a peer competition game is just another form of fit thinking. It is not, those are actually significantly different ways of thinking about college admissions generally, and I think we should be clear about that distinction.