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<p>This is a nice way to put it. It keeps her from feeling that she can think something is pretty, but just not be right for her. That would help her feel like she’s not offending you by returning it. It’s not a reflection of taste so much as just not being a “fit.”</p>
<p>You are going to have a great time with your S and DIL! I doubt very much that most DIL’s know how much we care what they think and how things go.
You are already showing consideration for her!
I hope you give us an update after the Holidays!</p>
<p>Thanks, oregon101. Yes, I’m sure they don’t realize what a big deal they are to us!</p>
<p>I see that my thinking gets muddled around 10pm these days. My second sentence above says the opposite of what I meant, but you got the right message, I’m sure.</p>