<p>OP, Don’t waste your time thinking about relationships, build up your self confidence by getting involved in (activities – Ed. MWFN) like sports, writing, or really anything that will help you have more self worth. You can’t just wait around for someone to give you the perfect advice on the subject of girls - I wasted a lot of time that way. It’s not really about thinking of girls as something above people, it’s about thinking of yourself as lower than everyone else, which is an unfortunate result of being forced/coerced/encouraged to strictly follow everyone’s orders throughout your childhood to get good grades, get into a good college, etc. and abandon any desires you may have for the consummation of your youth that your parents/teachers/guardians desire. </p>
<p>tl;dr stop thinking that you’re less than everyone else, this isn’t just about girls, it’s about living your life. Stop trying to please everyone else with no regard for yourself. YOU HAVE TO CARE ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE MORE THAN THE LIVES OF ANY OTHER INDIVIDUAL PERSON, DO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT?</p>