How Much Do You think You Need to Retire? What Age Will You/Spouse Retire? General Retirement Issues (Part 2)

OpenSS kills you off slowly. :slight_smile: In other words, it does the (correct Finance) analysis by decrementing the annual cash flows by your chance of death each year.

You can click the button in the top middle of the page if you want to see what happens if one of you dies at 82, or other age.

You can also change the mortality table if you are healthy or are a smoker. SS benefits are based on a unisex table, but insurance companies do not (for annuities).

Only if you pick an optional table.
https://opensocialsecurity.com/about#mortality

Thanks. I called myself a non-smoker, long-lifer type and left dh per the normal mortality table, and the suggestion was the same. Hmmmm. The difference was less than $30k over my lifetime so I guess it’s not worth sweating.

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The only inputs I saw for the open social security link was your birthdate, sex and the amount of your monthly benefit. It said that I should take SS at age 62 and 1 month, and my husband should take it at 70. We have the same benefit, and are close to the same age. The only difference I see is the sex. Seems like they would tell women to select it at an older age, since we often have longer lives, but it was the opposite.

I mean this in the most positive way, but especially as old geezers, I love that we can think about $30k that way. I remember the first time I wrote a check for over $1000 and I thought it was such a huge thing.

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check the box top middle of page: Click here to select situations that may apply to you
" and then “Mortality table”

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Yet it comes out to the same solution. The only difference is that I’m a woman and he is a man, therefore I file early and he waits until 70. I don’t really know what the rationale for that is.

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you could always keep the same inputs and reverse the Genders to see if it changes. (I’d guess not.)

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I did. Keeps the timeline based upon the gender. Even when I mess around with the payment amount and birthdates.It seems like that’s the main factor in the equation for some reason.

the model mortality adjusts for each spouse individually and calculates teh NPV for the maximum benefit, which usually means the female outlives the male. However, that is not as important as the highest earner retiring latest as that spouse’s benefit also becomes the survivor benefit amount when that highest income and SS benefit spouse passes.

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FYI, I kept playing with this and saw where you can project the age of death (an option in the mortality-table link). Once I put in anything (both parents lived/are older than 90), then it said to wait until 70 to take mine.

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I did the same thing and my husband should take at 62 and me at 70.

What if I die before I file for SS - does my husband still get mine (instead of his because mine is higher)?

I assumed the calculator was telling the higher earner to hold off until 70 (it told me, the woman/higher earner to file at 70 and my husband, man/lower earner, to file at 62).

As I understand it, you husband would receive what your social security would be at your full retirement age. But not the amount you would get at 70. Even if he waited until 70 to draw your survivor benefits

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You get the spouses full retirement age amount if taking as spousal benefit. However at death the survivor benefit is the full amount they get at 70 or whenever they take it. At least that’s how I read it.

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Talked to a new activity group friend yesterday - it turns out they have been financing their two single children longer than necessary - and it is a financial strain for them. H is 70 and worked until almost 70, so he is drawing the bonus SS. She is 63 - last fall, through no fault of her own, bosses decided that the second half of the year her sales needed to be $XX. She decided, no, not killing herself due to other people’s job failures, and ‘retired’. She is waiting on SS. Son is 30 and working overseas, and the house they purchased is being rented with mostly responsible friends - except one lad, also 30 who lived up until 2 years ago with his grandfather and did not outside work. They got him into a pizza restaurant for some work experience, and then he got hired at Lowes, but he still isn’t working FT hours. If Son decides to stay overseas, they would be guiding him with selling the house. Of course they are ‘concerned’ about this lad, and honestly, I told this couple that if the house gets sold, he will have advance notice and will have to ‘fly’ at age 30+ - evidently he is smart but has anxiety issues, which he can get help for that. The electric garage door needed replacing, and they paid out of pocket for that – again, rents should be covering that stuff, and they need to ‘stop’ the money bleed. Their DD has a graduate degree in Chemistry, is working FT at a well paying HS teacher position, they have bought her house, yet they still pay for her car insurance and cell phone!

I told her how we ‘prepared’ our DDs years before completing college that they needed to pursue a degree that they can live the lifestyle they want within their budget. We did pay for car insurance/cell phone monthly amounts after they graduated college, but that was a ‘loan’ - DD1 got married 13 months later, so fiancĂ© and DD1 had earned enough to pay off their wedding, via cash flow, also with the money we provided for the wedding and the loan was paid off as well. DD1/SIL also paid off his student loans, except for one that was military 1% interest and would be forgiven after a stint in the military again (which he is now doing; payments suspended and will be paid off in another 1 1/2 years - and it is not a big amount). DD2 just paid off her interest free loan with us (out of end of year work bonus) – we didn’t want her to use up the stock account money she had left once college ended, and DD2 needed furniture since during 3 years of college was in a furnished apt with 2 other gals. Our DDs are similar age to their kids (29 and 27, soon to be 30 and 28). I told them their DD needs to live within her budget or get a roommate. Wife says the dad is a ‘softie’. I didn’t have time to recommend the mom get a SS statement update on her account to see what her retirement would be at age 64 (turning 64 soon), age 65, full SS, and age 70 - that is a piece of information she can review. She doesn’t want to go back to work, so she needs to work things out with her DH. They have been way more than generous with the son and daughter. This mom also has her dad’s home to sell in another location in the state, and has been having funds go to get it ready for the housing market - and she will be working with her realtor and an accountant so that the difference from when he died (the value of the house then) and what she does sell the house for, that those applied costs make it where she doesn’t have the tax consequences she can avoid with proper accounting.

To your point


Well Into Adulthood and Still Getting Money From Their Parents
Nearly 60% of parents provide financial help to their adult kids, a new study finds

https://www.wsj.com/personal-finance/financial-help-parents-money-ddc2f277?st=9cfhasch5skjmjs&reflink=desktopwebshare_permalink

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My NYT subscription is so confusing - I was paying $6.00/month full access as a new subscriber which ended mid-Jan 2024 - they sent me the renewal that went up to $25.00/month beginning in Jan 2024 and I decided that was too much so I was going to cancel my subscription. I went thru the online cancelation pages and confirmed on multiple pages that “yes” I really do want to cancel - when I got to what I had assumed was the final page for cancelation, they gave me other options to renew at $4.00/month full access for a year with cancelation at any time! What??? I kept thinking there was something wrong with this and I must have read it wrong but I’m looking at 2 emails that clearly show both subscriptions are All Access and both are weekly rates for 1 year. It’s also interesting that my rate is lower than yours
what am I missing? I guess if you have the patience to go thru all the pages, there is indeed a reward at the end! Edited to correct my 1st year monthly subscription was $6.00/month for All Access, not $6.25.

With WSJ, go to where you can get to ‘chat’ with someone (on line typing) - and ask if you could pay one time $100 per year (that was the initial offer the chat person gave me after I spelled out that I am OOS senior who only looks at a few sections sporadically) - and you have the rest of my story in my original post. Yes, I earlier got that I could be spending more with renewal.

You are not reading things wrong. IMHO chat for the discount, and do a one time pay up front, total cost will be (with their special promotion) $53.57. If you get to $100/year offer (with the billing every 4 weeks) ask if you can pay that lump sum - that is where they had the $50/year lump sum deal. So essentially I got the 2nd year for initial subscriber purchase. As soon as you get the offer you want, pay for it, and that will be that. They will reconfirm with email.

There are many good points in the article about situations like living at home to pay down student loans for example. Sometimes a career choice (and getting graduate/professional credentials) is going to have a young adult be under mom and dad payroll for a while (and their group health insurance).

Our situation found SIL and future SIL having delays with career start. I totally get that. But a continual drain when single adult children are in their career and have had ample help from parents is another situation.

We have resources to where we will ‘help’ when it financially fits for us and it is for important things - potentially with some down payment on a purchased home.

But many young adults need to ‘grow up’. Some decide to ‘live in the basement’ - move in and hard to get out/do adulting. On a recent show, a psychologist said when his daughter came home from her HS part time job at McDonald’s, none of the other young people working had anything good to say about their parents - IDK if they were mad that they were having to work, or mad that they had restrictions at home with curfew, grades in school, etc.

Situations where young adults have criminal ideas to get to parents or grandparents assets are getting known via the media - be it abuse, murder/murder for hire, financial fraud, etc.

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Our local county library offers access to NYT with a library card- has to be renewed with card every 3 days online. I gained access free to NYT and Washington Post that way. WP is renewed online sign in every 7 days. I can access them at home. If you are in the library you just go on their wifi without signing in.

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