How much nagging should you do?

<p>Cur:
I had a very easy time giving birth. But one neightbor was in labor for 24 hours+ and eventually had to be induced.
The person I was irritated with–a long time ago-- was another neighbor who crowed that her baby slept through the night at 10 weeks. Mine did not do so until 9 months (S1) and 4 years old (S2). S2 should have been an owl.</p>