<p>unfortunately been down this road too many times. What I really need is positive energy flowing my way AND LOTS OF IT. I 'm just taking it one day at a time and focus on all my blessings. I think I will be crying extra hard at her ceremony, though.</p>
<p>When I first got diagnosed when she was 3 , I really did not think I would see this and I am so grateful, I will not let this ruin it.</p>
<p>Dear Downtoearth:</p>
<p>I am sending all good karma, love and the strength of a fellow survivor. I pray that this one is negative too. And when the biopsy is negative…celebrate yet again. And yes…I sobbed when, last year, one daughter graduated from high school and another graduated from college. My kids just thought I was too emotional and ridiculous. I was thanking God and my mother for seeing me through to see those days of joy. You will dance at your daughter’s wedding.</p>
<p>And, I know that this little thread will only be seen by a very few. But I want to thank the women who came before us. The ones who didn’t make it, but tried new drugs that made it possible for us to survive. One of my best friend’s mother was diagnosed with breast cancer at age 35…in the early 1960s. Then…it was a death sentence. (My mother called it the five year plan.) This valiant woman tried everything…she was one of the first women in the United States to have chemo. This woman fought for 15 years so that we could see the day that we, or our daughters will never have breast cancer. </p>
<p>So, Downtoearth, you enjoy this…and many celebrations to come. Keep us informed.</p>
<p>downtoearth – Costco-size positive energy flowing your way from me.</p>
<p>Thanks so much. Thank you for reminding me of those brave women.</p>
<p>downtoearth, I just wanted to send more good thoughts your way & to tell you that I will say a little prayer for you as well tonight. I am so hoping you get good results again…hugs…</p>
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<p>Thank you so much Ellebud for writing this. It made me cry. My mom was like your friend’s mothers – 1960s, 35, a ten year fight that included treatments so aggressive they are no longer in use. It means a lot to me to read your words. (Going for my yearly mammogram today.)</p>
<p>Wanted to thank you for your support, I am doing the things necessary to be calm and feel supported I am feeling your good wishes…really! I went to my d’2 dance recital she looked so beautiful and I was so proud of her. I did not think about it just enjoyed the show. I have come a long way, this stuff used to be paralyzing, now I have my moments sometimes prolonged. Mimk6 good luck on your mammogram -yes thanks to your mom without her courage, I would not have benefited from the research, and I am grateful. Women are truely wonderful and Strong. My test isn’t for a week but I will keep you updated. 1</p>
<p>mimk6:</p>
<p>I thank you Mom too. How did it go today? I am thinking of you.</p>
<p>Downtoearth:</p>
<p>Please keep us informed. Again, sending good healthy wishes.</p>
<p>It went well, thank you.</p>
<p>awesome! I love to hear this also because I worry about my kids.</p>
<p>There will be a round 3.</p>
<p>downtoearth, there are no words to tell you how sorry I am this has happened again.</p>
<p>Sending healing thoughts your way.</p>
<p>I am so unbelievably sorry.</p>
<p>Yeah I must admit this really sucks. can’t deny it. but I will be ok. i aam glad I did not let it ruin my D’s graduation. it was beautiful and she did so well. Keep those prayers I need them!!!</p>
<p>downtoearth, I am so sorry you have to battle this beast again. We will be here for you. Sending lots of healing energy and prayers your way for you and your family.</p>
<p>I’m so sorry DTE. Stay on here and we can all lend a hand in a way where you can manage the pace and timing.</p>
<p>I’ve often joked that once I find the complaint box I’m going to have a pretty darn long list of items to stuff it with. I will post its location once if find it!</p>
<p>I’m also sorry to see this. Your sisters on CC will be here when you need us.</p>
<p>DTE sorry you have to go through another round.
My prayers and positive energy are going in your direction.
I just finished round of chemo, sitting here bald and tired.
My D graduated May 23rd, and it was a special moment. Enjoy your child’s graduation.
Cancer is a thief, but there are things it can not steal.
Celebrate your child .
Celebrate life in the face of the thief.
Blessings to you and yours.</p>
<p>yeshecan: I was there bald and depressed wondering if I would ever feel the wind in my hair again. I asked my oncologist for propecia (spelling?) a hair growth stimulent. He proscribed it for me. I admit that my hair always grew fairly quickly, but the medicine helped. Within 3 1/2 months I had enough hair to go without my wig. I remember calling my friend, crying with joy because I felt the wind in my hair. Ask your doctor if you wish to speed that process along.</p>
<p>DTE: I think about you and wishing you a speedy journey to health. We are with you.</p>