<p>Expressing your concerns to your child is not meddling. If you have an uneasy feeling about this situation, why not talk to your daughter about it? Just because your daughter is going off to college, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t need your guidance any more.</p>
<p>I guess this all depends on what kind of relationship you have with your daughter. If you are lucky enough to have a child who talks to you about stuff, I think it is a good idea to have this conversation with her. This is not imposing your will.</p>