<p>Bump, bump. </p>
<p>It is so hard to know what to say in regards to boyfriend/girlfrind visits. My D is a freshman in college and she is still dating her boyfriend of 18 months, since begining of senior year in high school. They are 3 hours away by bus. They visit each other once a month. One month he visits her, the other month she visits him. So they are together every 4 weeks. I never like when she goes visit him. My husband hates it! we don’t know why we feel this way. I agree that you should gently convey your thoughts to your son/daughter. We told her about getting involved in colege, making new friends and so forth. So far, so good. But I still sometimes, touch on the subject. We can’t control their hearts. But we can still guide our college kids, without being invasive.</p>