<p>i’m not really sure what to say when a girl i’m interested in says something like, “i’m fat” or whatever. i don’t know what to say when she’s obviously not fat. i hate being serious haha, so usually i just go with it and joke a bit about it (they know i’m not serious, i think haha).</p>
<p>any better, non-serious way to reply to this? “awww, you’re not fat” just sounds so stupid/cliche</p>
<p>This should be a reflex if you wanna success with girls :)</p>
<ul>
<li>I’m fat.</li>
<li>No.</li>
</ul>
<p>No hesitation, no studying of her figure for an hour, no giggling, no joking.</p>
<p>^That’s actually a good answer, nice.</p>
<p>“Yep.” /<em>comment</em>/</p>
<p>I agree with ChaosTheory. They’re just fishing for compliments anyway. If they’re that serious about it, might as well agree, eh?</p>
<p>Usually when people who aren’t fat and say they are just want attention, so just be like, “Ok, you’re fat… what do you want me to do about it?”</p>
<p>Goddamnit. People. It’s Compliments 101. This is not an area you joke about.</p>
<p>if you roll over and go with it, you’re being a pushover tho :P. especially if they’re obviously not fat.</p>
<p>why does saying “im fat” have to mean the person is “fishing for compliments”? insecurity runs rampant among young girls, everyone should know this. why are you people so insensitive?</p>
<p>I, being a girl, when my friends insist on poking their stomachs and crying “I’m fat”, I usually say “My God, how does your shirt cover all of that fat!”</p>
<p>Yeah, I know ktcv, but all the girls I know who say that are just fishing for compliments.</p>
<p>People who fish for compliments are people who feel the need to be complimented…aka, insecure people. So, if a girl is insecure…you feed into her insecurities? Wow, you’re really a nice guy.</p>
<p>I’m a girl, fyi. Sarcasm… Whoosh over your head.</p>
<p>They know my personality. They know what I really mean, because I rarely feel the need to have a Lifetime moment.</p>
<p>aw, cut us some slack! certainly dont give us any :(</p>
<p>Post #4 would be the correct response.</p>
<p>I understand some girls are selfconscious and all, but if you’re clearly not fat, then it’s just annoying to say “im fat.” It’s just fact that you’re not. Look at your body mass index or something, hello. i find this to be one of the most annoying things ever and if when girls say this it puts the people they’re talking to in a very awkward position.</p>
<p>“I’ll give you tips on how to be bulimic.”</p>
<p>Give her an annoyed look and she’ll shut up.</p>
<p>Respond “Why yes you are”.</p>
<p>Tell the girl… think of a more creative way to fish for compliments, :p</p>
<p>jk of course… it’s probably better to make her happy and let her know that you find her attractive… lol.</p>
<p>big feet are supposed to be a good thing lol</p>