How to select college for a kid who is too dependent upon parents?

<p>I have a sibling like this. College time, mom and dad said “go here” so off the sib went. Mom and Dad said “major in engineering” so the sib did. Very shortly after college came marriage and now the spouse tells my sib what to do.My sib was very successful in college and successful in life in the job and financially. Some people are just followers and non decision makers. It’s just who they are. Aggravating at times, but it’s definitely a type of personality. Me, when mom or dad said “go left” I went right and when Dad said “go to XYZ” college I found the most opposite and the farthest away.</p>