<p>They don’t want to accept the responsibility for their own lives in all areas but it is their obligation to do so. When my daughter was 18 there were many decisions which I said, I’m sorry honey, I’m not going to make that decision for you. I was just very matter-of-fact and pleasant, but I would not get drawn in to taking on the responsibility. I no longer had to shoulder the responsibility. It’s very freeing actually. And the sooner the change-over happens, the sooner your relationship will be between two respectful adults.</p>