<p>It’ll come.</p>
<p>My oldest d lives on campus 10 minutes from home. At first, we did the “stay on campus every weekend and get connected” but that randomly selected roommate? Not such a good match. D was home every weekend because the alternative was to be awoken by and then take care of drunken roommate. But, she found a new roommate and I don’t think she slept in her home bed again until summer.</p>
<p>D still seeks my opinion and likes my approval, even though I tell her she doesn’t need it. She has also had health issues, including a surgery this year. She’s probably moved away a little slower than some kids, but she has done so. Basically, what I’m saying is that this is a process. you can start it now, but you don’t need to insist that it’s completed by Labor Day.</p>