How to stop being infatuated with the dating scene in college?

<p>Why would someone willingly submit themselves though to be against the world? I’m just not really following the logic… I am reading the other posts, it’s just where I come from, (America), its a natural thing for guys and girls to hook up. When did it become something to avoid? I guess I understand that he wants to focus on school, but like someone said earlier, why can’t he just find girls that are also studious? Why does it have to be him against the world/girls?? I don’t know, I just think that either I’m missing something in his logic, or he’s missing something in college… ;)</p>