<p>@TitoMorito: ohhh… thank u! i misunderstood. i thought he wanted to avoid women. Annnnnddd… Thank u for clearing up the “against the world” part. lol (I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to sound like I was complaining; i was just confused about the logic, but I guess it IS JUST him that feels that way… my mistake!) </p>
<p>I love how like all y’all guys are saying ya! girls are so distracting! lol 
woww… the things u learn u have the power of and didn’t know it…</p>
<p>This is top secret stuff you’re learning here. Don’t go around spreading this info to your friends. Guys, they’re on to us, quick, look the other way and act cool!</p>
<p>@Kel2012: hahahahaha! I’m going to tell EVERYONE!! We know the truth now!! I feel sorry for y’all (guys) … lol It’s the hard knock life aint it for y’all?? ;)</p>
<p>OP: #notabigissue</p>
<p>Or you can switch to a school like RPI where I am attending and not have to worry to much about not focusing on girls, with the lopsided ratio. (Fortunately I am biomedical engineering, which has a good amount of girls :D)</p>
<p>Wow, how did me wanting to be focused on my studies turn into me being against the world lol? As I said before, I don’t hate women or want to avoid them; I love women (like every guy probably does), and I don’t want to turn into a guy that is yearning for them. Instead, I want to focus on my work because I have a scholarship to maintain (only need 3.0 which shouldn’t be hard, but I’ve never been to college before lol) and I know that the first semester in school is the easiest one to get distracted and I don’t want to end up with a lot of loans because I was too focused on a cute face and a body rather than my Calc class or something lol.</p>
<p>It’s not really a serious problem; its a moderate one if anything, but I just wanted some feedback on what everyone thought lol, and you guys pretty much provided it for me. I guess I’ll just go into college focusing on my work (like I should be doing in the first place) and will start considering dating when I feel I am established to my own standards. The problem probably was that ever since like 10th grade I’ve always wanted that perfect college relationship and was too naive to actually think about all of the other priorities lol</p>
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<p>No my friend, we aren’t making false dilemmas. If you give me one success story, I’ll give you 10 not-so success stories. Being in a relationship does affect your progress, ESPECIALLY if you’re doing something hard like engineering (in my case). </p>
<p>Losing track for a period will get you to lose yourself on the way. Meaning, you wouldn’t be able to maintain your scholarship (like in my case). Trust me you could easily lose track when your brain is more focused on girls. And being tied to a one girl makes it even worse (she calls you and rants for two hours how much you don’t care for not going out today).</p>
<p>@908kiddo: haha im not entirely sure either (on how u became against the world), but I know I got super confused about what u meant. lol I think everything’s cleared up now though but hey… keep ur mind open! U could find that totally perfect college relationship!! Maybe there’s that chick that’s thought about it since she was in 9TH GRADE!! lol don’t be so focused, you miss her! thats my words of wisdom!! lol (or maybe im just naive too…?) :)</p>
<p>[MQ1993: Not all of us rant!!! yeesh! half of y’all made girls sound so terrible!! It’s not OUR fault ur attracted to us, and its not ALL of us who r obnoxious and will rant lol]</p>
<p>Think about your grandmother</p>
<p>My grandmothers dead…</p>