How to tell DS that there's exactly zero chance that his girlfriend can stay here at Thanksgiving?

Add me to the list of people who grew up with parents who believed “living together” was wrong. At least back in the '70’s where it was sort of a scandal in my small midwestern town.

But…things change. When D and her BF (now H) moved in together, neither my parent nor in laws had any issue with it.The ice had already been broken on H’s side of the family with his niece, but honestly I just think everyone realized that times change. I think everyone honestly admitted that the vast majority of young adults are sexually active and that’s not anything new. People are just more open about it now.