<p>If you like the fresh fruit, atemoya and sugar apple are sweeter cousins of soursop. Soursop pulp is better for ice cream and sherbets and you can find it frozen in the Spanish markets (where it’s usually labeled guanabana).</p>
<p>I’m not sure how I missed this thread until now! Great food and great conversation! I’ve never heard of soursop, atemoya, sugar apple or guanabana - so thank you owlice, and thank you j’adoube for enlightening me.</p>
<p>I like the idea of a mommy school (and/or daddy school) as well. I have a feeling I’m going to need to exercise that option for D when the time comes.</p>
<p>However, need to loose a few pounds. Anyone have any good diet suggestions/pointers? I will get to the exercise stuff later. Right now I’d love to hear people’s diet success stories.</p>
<p>(PS-- doesnt this thread likely belong in the Parents cafe???)</p>
<p>I want this post to stay here, so will sprinkle in a college-related issue: Which college has the best food? I like the idea of snack time at Pomona.</p>
<p><em>settling down with ice cream and brownie</em></p>
<p>unalove, thanks for your post. I agree with you that she need to look at other schools. She has the Bard college book on her dresser and has been looking through it, but no excitement so far. She flat out rejected even considering Simmons-it’s too far.</p>
<p>Barnard: It’s in NYC (she would have a built in support network of relatives) and it seemed very “intellectual” to her. She is in a very competitive public high school where she feels a lot of kids are “grade grubbers” who do well academically but are not particularly interested or engaged in learning so much as getting “all As.”</p>
<p>She is not particularly interested in Women’s colleges as a whole, but Barnard is academically rigorous without having the whole “prestige” thing attached to it like, let’s say Columbia does.</p>
<p>Chicago: Also very intellectual-the whole “life of the mind” thing appeals to her. She can see herself up at midnight discussing Kierkegaard. Again, it is academically rigorous, but quirky, not your typical grade grubber school.</p>
<p>Urban is a plus for her. She rejected even looking at Oberlin because it’s out in the middle of a corn field.</p>
<p>I can think of a range of fantastic, highly selective schools for somebody like your D that sound like they might be in your geographic range: Swarthmore, Wesleyan, Vassar, Sarah Lawrence, NYU, Skidmore, Goucher. Maybe it makes sense to visit those schools and see if they also click.</p>
<p>Are you an NYS resident? If so, I think that the in-state options for safeties are pretty brainy. I’m a big fan of Binghamton and Geneseo-- I don’t know if those would qualify as safeties for your D.</p>
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<p>St. John’s is also an idea… it’s a school I think I’d really like, but unfortunately the curriculum is limited and inflexible.</p>
<p>We are not in NYS. We are in the (northern) DC suburbs, 200 miles puts us just about at NYC. I know nothing about St. John’s. I’ll have to take a look.</p>