<p>Chelsea–</p>
<p>I am a parent and a Brown alum ('74). My parents were unable to help me attend college and I put myself through that school. It was not easy and I had to drop in & out a couple of times, and graduated in '78. I had a lot of help from the FA office. This was during years when Brown was not as well off endowment-wise as they are today. </p>
<p>Years later, our daughter applied to Brown EA (which they still had then) and when the aid letter came, it turned out Brown cost us just a little more per year than our state school would have. </p>
<p>Please have your parents visit not only Brown’s fin aid pages for a complete explanation of their policies (and wonderful generosity towards families like yours) and also you might want to visit Princeton’s FA page. They have an excellent explanation of not only their own practices but how the fin aid process works, overall.</p>
<p>Tell your parents, do not look at the numbers on the school’s website and think that is the real cost of the school, any school, for your family. College is not like buying cornflakes. That box of cornflakes is $3.50 whether you are Bill Gates or Joe the car mechanic. But at colleges, the price changes depending on your circumstances. There is merit aid at some schools, and there is need based aid at others, and most do both. Brown only gives need-based aid, though you can also receive merit based scholarships from outside entities and they are very happy if you do.</p>
<p>Brown and other schools who can afford to aid the students they want change the price of the school for those kids. My daughter attended at the same time as George Harrison’s son. The Harrisons & the JRZMoms did not pay the same for our kids to get Brown degrees! George paid the full ticket and when doing so, he helped my daughter attend (I always said he was my favorite Beatle).</p>
<p>Whether you could/would be accepted at Brown based on your grades, scores, etc is another matter entirely—but tell your parents, from one former student in your position to another, and from a parent whose child went to Brown, PLEASE do not close your eyes to Brown or similar schools based on misunderstandings of financial aid and the true cost of the school.</p>
<p>And, if it is at all possible, try to get to these schools for some visiting. Maybe you could come East during the summer—when we were visiting schools for our daughter, we “wrapped” some of them into a family camping trip and stayed at KOAs, to cut the costs. There are also hostels in many major cities, which are less expensive than hotels. Get a little creative and you can find a lot of ways to make this less expensive. Good luck and please give my best to your parents!</p>