<p>sorry if this starts a war, but i sort of want to make this a thread as its a sort of interesting topic. im a rising senior, my age correlates with my grade, ill be 18 next summer, but i wonder sometimes, what would have happened had i skipped a grade. i went to a private school and was accelerated in all subjects, and once i hit high school, i went through a sort of “review” or “remedial” period where i repeated course material for the duration of sophomore year. now im a full ib diploma candidate, and i really like the program, but i also know that i had to sort of sacrifice moving on for a year to take it, as you cant be a sophomore and seat for an ib test. i also had to take first year physics over again, and even though i pulled a 100 average easily, i sort of feel bad for not taxing myself too much in doing so. i was wondering what everyone feels about this topic, like would you accelerate or stick it out, what you would do in my situation, if you want more specifics i can explain. </p>
<p>its just that i like my high school years, and im not sure for my academic life i would sacrifice my social growth, and vice versa. instead i just decided to try and do as much as i can with my spare time that im not doing physics homework in, for instance. its not like im a slacker by any means, but i think theres that somewhat funny feeling like “i can do more” or “i want to start soemthing new” that i feel like i put off. theres a certain foundation building that i keep convincing myself took place during those “review” periods that i might not have fully gotten if i had just skipped a grade and ran through into college…</p>
<p>again, if anyone has ideas, please by all means put 'em up, i was sort of inspired because i read the blog by matt mcgann posted on another recent thread…</p>
<p>to quote the article, “His parents have been careful to guard him from too much media exposure to help his teen years be as uncomplicated as possible. They once even turned down an interview with Dan Rather.”</p>
<p>my “teen years” would definately not be the same had i experienced them in college. i know i had to go through the moat of junior high just like so many others, though i was in a private school so it was different, not better mind you, but different. college has lots of aspects of life that i dont think i would have been ready for had i decided to just skip high school. and also, is high school just about classes? i thought an integral part of it, which was referred to as “the social scene” in this article was learning from peers, intellectual level equal or not. its sort of like how people say “you learn life’s lessons in kindergarten”. are you skipping out on some things that have to be done, not necessarily partying and whatnot, im not part of that, but little things, subtleties of life i might have missed had i not gone to high school.</p>
<p>So I’m not as awesome as that Chris kid, but I did skip one grade. Combined with a late birthday, that usually puts me 1.5 to 2 years younger than everyone else. I personally cannot see why a lot of parents don’t want their kids to skip grades. I felt it was the best thing to ever happen to me, and if I could go back in time, I’d probably skip another grade…or two. </p>
<p>Staying 12 years in the school system isn’t right for everyone, just like college isn’t right for everyone. </p>
<p>Then again, I’m more of a supporter for skipping grades earlier on, as opposed to the later high school years.</p>
<p>My personal opinion is that the US High School system is too long. Not enough opportunity early for acceleration and if so many are taking APs why then not matriculate college early.</p>
<p>to clarify, i am talking more about later high school years than earlier years. i agree its not a bad decision to have a kid skip a grade when fundamentals can be easily picked up, but having a kid accelerate through three or four grades can have not just academic effects on a kid. and also, not saying i dont agree with your decision, it definately worked out, but if i wanted to skip a bunch of grades i wouldnt realize what other effects on me it woudl have. if i was 13 and a senior, i dont think i would compeltely fit in, regardless of my maturity or aptitude for learning or whatever category you want to include. i mean of course its less for someone only 1 or 2 years younger, but can someone accelerate the amount of years they go through academically at the same rate as the rate at which they go through that crazy hormonal thing that i know at least i did for a year or so…</p>
<p>I’m going to MIT in the fall after 3 years of high school, and so I can see both perspectives on this: one the one hand, there would be absolutely nothing left for me to do at my school, I already ran out of math last year and now I would be out of science too (unless I wanted to go and take earth sci w/ the freshmen) if I stayed, and english and social studies since I doubled up on those in order to get out early. I think getting into MIT is one of the best things that ever happened to me, and I’ve been looking forward to going for a long time, but…</p>
<p>well, all my friends are my age and going into their senior year together, and i’m not going to be here. I knew this would happen, but it becomes more obvious and painful every day. I wouldn’t give up MIT for the world (well, maybe for the world… but you get the point), but I still don’t want to leave everybody else behind.</p>