<p>okay lately i have been sitting around all day watching tv, using the computer, eating, and sleeping…im finishing up high school and decided i would not put much effort and work very hard in college…i have been very excited about it and feel motivated to make it happen…so with my month left of school i have just been slacking off ( and i mean wasting my life) and ive came to a point where i feel depressed, heavy, weak, and lazy…the only thing that did not worry me is me thinking things will drastically change when hs’s over…if i wanted to right now, i would not be able to study from lack of interest, but i say that i will in college, the thing is i have one class in college and im the top student but i have to fix my research paper and i haven’t touched it…do you think i will most likely drag this behavior into college which i care about a lot or will things most likely change since i will have a fresh start and out of hs (which i see as a drag)</p>
<p>I kind of think this is a weird question but i think you guys can answer it</p>
<p>i think everyone been through that stage some time in his/her life. i always got lazy during the last weeks of school and summer, but i usually get it back when school starts</p>
<p>don’t worry. u’ll be fine as long as u keep urself motivated to do well in school</p>
<p>thanks…last year i had i very bad when i feel in love with a girl that had a bf, all i did was think about her thats it, and id feel sorry for my self thinking i would have a chance downloading love songs…now i am completely out of it (and the girl knew big time too) and i look back at myself and i ask myself if im gay lol…now she actually talks to me (i used to be nervous around her) and i talk to her so confidently cause i have nothing to fear and she started liking me after she broke up but i lost interest…but once again im going into that lame dead feeling i dreaded but not in love…kinda just feel like a loser (dont go out hardly</p>
<p>I think I was pretty lethargic for a while after HS was done with too. I was just glad it was over and I shut off for a while. But yeah, I’m sure that attitude of yours is temporary. Maybe to help you could get a summer job or increase your hours? You’ll get money on top of staying active. :D</p>
<p>Things are coming to a close and you aren’t motivated. </p>
<p>Try getting some exercise. Swimming, jogging, whatever you like. You won’t get so blah if you do that.</p>
<p>I’m sure it’s temporary. If not, and you feel that way once college starts, go to the counseling dept and get suggestions. But I’m sure you will be too busy once college starts to even think about being bored!</p>
<p>about to the job, i hate my job lol…but once i start working i feel so much better (but with a horrible temper from the guys i work with)…about exercise, lol im too lazy like today i went to play ball for 10 min and left…but i feel very good when i get A’s so i think ill be fine…also im expecting a serious job in college (since ill be 18) and will be happy with it…also ill have less time home and more time occupied (which i love because i feel like im doing good with my life) with school, work and activities</p>
<p>And for me, the fact that I was the only one in my close group of friends who decided to take the CC route in order to transfer to my dream school was kind of depressing. :P</p>
<p>But I don’t regret it one bit. The first day of class and every often during an intensely boring lecture, week, month etc., I repeat the reason why I’m doing this and should stay motivated… “to get into USC”. </p>
<p>I know this is a UC forum but blah, lol, works for any other school you can think of. & I did apply to a UC too. :)</p>
<p>I drank a lot, smoked not so much (i dont like being high, i feel slow and dumb) and popped a lot for 2 years after graduating high school. Came out of DeAnza with a 3.5gpa, now going to go to UCSD. Got the party phase finished with, now I hope i can concentrate when i transfer.</p>
<p>Dam its Johnny- Yes, I said my friends not my graduating class. I went to a high school where the Academic Decathlon was insane, my friends and I took AP’s, Honors and <em>they</em> were mostly overachievers. In comparison, I don’t have much to boast about my HS academic experience. I was just trying to pass AP exams but I’m glad I had the opportunity to turn it around.
:p</p>
<p>ooooo major senioritis over here, too. the funny thing is: i KNOW it is temporary because i’ve had this feeling before in the past few years at community college. seriously, it IS a drag though. not having anything to do… all i do is eat, sleep, computer-time, go visit friends every once in a while (just to get out of the house). no job, and barely any school for this last semester wasn’t exactly a challenging atmosphere to be in. esp, for an overachiever like me.</p>
<p>i fully expect this behavior and attitude to change once i go to berkeley in the fall. AND as noquestionsasked said, i’m sure you (and me) will be too busy in the fall to even worry about it!</p>