We are on the hunt for colleges and I’d love some recommendations on schools that may be a good fit for our son. He is a 17 year old homeschooled junior. We live in southern Virginia, and would prefer schools that are not too far away (6 hour drive?). He’ll take the SAT in May, so that will help us formulate a vision for what types of schools may be reach/fit/safety, but in general we’re looking for smaller-sized (we think?) liberal arts schools that have really strong French programs. A few relevant details:
*He’s always been homeschooled, but most of his classes are taken through online providers. He has made straight As so far; he may end up with a B in Algebra 2 this year, but we’re hoping not! So right now hovering around a 4.0 unweighted and hoping we’ll stay there.
*He is fluent in French and highly proficient in Spanish. This year he’s taking AP French and he has completed Spanish 4. (We’re figuring out next year, since he’ll have maxed out of the opportunities at the schools we use online…) When he speaks with native speakers, they are stunned at his speaking abilities. This is his area of giftedness for sure (he was an autodidact around age 10). It’s The Thing that makes him stand out the most. He has also dabbled in Mandarin and Russian, but French is his first love. He wants to major in French and probably something else–not sure what yet? Philosophy, politics, environmental studies are all interesting to him.
*He has extensive theatre background, having acted in many shows and is currently assistant director in a show–all community theatre. This is a “fun” thing, not a career path for him from his perspective, but has been a big source of time/commitment/leadership over the past 5 years.
*He has a light ADHD (inattentive) diagnosis and is very high functioning ASD (to the point where people don’t know it if they meet him). He has only recently been diagnosed and I doubt he will need extra supports/accommodations, but it’s something we’re keeping in mind.
*Coming from a high school class of 1 :), I think a smaller school may be a better fit for him, so he doesn’t fall between the cracks. This may be an unfounded fear, but it’s one I’m keeping in mind.
*Like most people, the more aid he gets, the better. In terms of actual affordability, most NPCs are churning out #s in the $30k-$50K range, which is higher than we’d like to spend. (Dickinson was $50K!! And it’s one we’re most interested in!) Merit scholarships would be helpful.
*He is smart, quirky, uninterested in athletics or Greek life. In terms of college “vibe” I don’t know that a super competitive environment would be healthy; he is really smart, but isn’t a major gunner. He needs to be around other smart, thoughtful humans, but not in a toxically competitive environment. I went to W&M and we all loved bragging about how stressed we were (even though honestly I was never that stressed); I think he’s find this tedious. Because it is! Perhaps things have changed in 25 years. But in general, I want him to have a challenging college experience, but one that allows lots of room for making friends & enjoying his life.
Thank you for any steering/wisdom you can provide!