<p>i’ve noticed that no one has the attention span for my long e-mails/posts (well, the ones in the past anyways), and I don’t have the attention span for most people’s activities.</p>
<p>alternatively you could call it “boredom” but I prefer to use the word “attention span” to avoid the appearance of intentionality/free will (which has the habit of making past memories more painful)</p>
<p>and I guess to illustrate that it’s not the fault of either of us and that both of us should take all necessary measures not to judge (which, to me, is far more of a “crime” than almost anything else)</p>