Hi gals & guys,
First, please forgive my very weak understanding of finances and American colleges. I was born in the US, but I grew up in Europe, and have been living in Switzerland since my early 20s. Also, it simply never crossed either my wife’s or my mind that either of our kids would want to study in America, so we’re waaaay behind the ball on this.
Situation: Our son is good at singing, and toward the end of conservatory/performing arts high school, he decided that he wanted to discover his American roots - ergo, he’s dreaming of doing his vocal performance training at a college in the US. Last month he travelled to New York and Philadelphia for auditions (voice, classical). He had a really nice experience, except for getting lonely toward the end.
He’s still waiting for word from a conservatory called Curtis Institute in Philadelphia, but he just got news that he would be welcome to study at Juilliard.
Which is pretty nifty!
Only: When I first saw that they’re offering a yearly 30k scholarship, I was upbeat - until I realized that the overall yearly budget is almost 75k - which really took the wind out of our sails! My wife and I think we can scrape together 20k per year, but we’d still be facing a 25k yearly deficit.
(By comparison: Our daughter studies at continental Europe’s premier institute of technology and pays less than $1500 per year - which her teaching assistant job pays easily, with lots left over. Oh - and she lives at home, too … )
Couple questions:
- Is this a NORMAL offer on Juilliard's part?? Or this a school's NICE way of saying, "Thanks for applying, kid, but we're not really feeling it - unless you're filthy rich, in which case, hey, whatever ... "?
- Is there some way NORMAL US folks scrape together this kind of money, besides taking on insane amounts of debt?? (Even our son is pretty clear about not wanting to start a career in music almost 100k in the red ... I mean, if he wanted to be an engineer like big sis, that'd be a different game ...)
- What's the part time work situation in the US? Since our son is not a US citizen, I understand that he isn't allowed to get a job during his first year - but if we could somehow pull through year one, what kind of money can college students typically make??
- Do up-and-coming singers tend to pick up many paying gigs in NY? Our son actually pulls in a pretty nice revenue stream around here. Solo work with a choir here, a funeral there - it all adds up, and it accumulates over time! But New York is a whole new world.
- Any other tips? Right now, I'm really having trouble seeing how we can make this work - though I sure as hell wish I could, cause I'd love our kid to have that experience.
Again, I understand that we walked into this without having a clue what we were doing - feel free to tell me just how naive we are!
P.S. The local conservatory is helping him contact a number of Swiss foundations that help finance young artists - so it could be that he’ll find some financial aid on this side of the pond.