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<p>Yeah but I think you’ll find that most HSers, even seniors, don’t necessarily judge social situations that well. I mean, I think some people know what’s going on sometimes but they choose to subscribe to more of a “well 99% of people get along with me so I’m not going to adjust for this guy.” Which, I think is fine, I mean I think for most people it’s a natural response and as long as it’s 1% and not 99% that don’t get along with you, you’ll probably do pretty well. </p>
<p>I’m just speaking generally now. As for the OP, I think the problem is, whether there’s more to the story or not, when HSers are misjudging situations or whatever, it is kind of more on the adult to not become involved in pettiness. If her son didn’t break rules that were previously set out as grounds for dismissal, which it doesn’t sound like that was the case, then I would have to say the coach is probably in the wrong here. If there were no warnings of such a consequence, then it is quite drastic action to just take over one thing. I mean I’m sure he has the right to do what he wants, I’m just talking in a practical or ethical sense.</p>