<p>I think a big thing for my daughters is reputation. They have seen and heard enough about girls who have had sex and they get a certain reputation that sticks for a long time. And they have seen how small the world is, and it is pretty funny that no matter where they go, they know someone who knows someone who knows us. </p>
<p>And they realize that right now, in highschool they don’t want to deal with the gossip, the hurt, and all the other stuff that can go on. That my shift some in the next few years</p>
<p>With that in mind, they still have all the facts, I am not blind to how even the best intentions and plans can change once the “right” guy comes along</p>
<p>One girl “messed” around with guys when she went in as a freshman, four years, later she was still easzy conisshy</p>
<p>And something my Ds have learned, and sorry fellows, is that guys will fib, they will exagerate, especially when they are 14, 15, 16, not all, but enough to cause problems</p>
<p>I am not burying my head in the sand, we have had some very frank and good talks and they “get it”…</p>