<p>My very accomplished hs son is attending a state school which is close to home, even though he got accepted to more prestigious private schools. He lives there and we don’t visit. He comes home on public transportation when he wants or needs to. In short, he has his own life there. It really depends on how you and your parents approach the situation. Is there any way you can live on campus? It is kind of a compromise because you have a chance to grow up and be on your own, but your parents can be comfortable knowing that you can come home if you absolutely need to.</p>
<p>Some hs students who went far away or to expensive private schools were home by Christmas. Also, anyone who is condescending about your choice is very superficial and just plain stupid. You can do great at your public university and go to that “ivy” for grad school. At least you know you’ll have the grades and the money to do so when the time comes!</p>