Thank you all parents so far for all of the thought provoking angles and considerations. As you can imagine, this is nerve racking for me and him. Many many questions and answers populating my grey matter now. Many permutations on most efficient use of finances and time.
This thread will be ongoing throughout the next 30 days at least I’m sure and when I have time I can finally address questions and counterpoints. This is not a debate so much as a brain storming session.