Your kids are smart cookies taking the minimum strings UTD NMF vs. the “we own you” McDermott. When I applied to college a long time ago, I wondered if the student made the school or the other way around. I’ve learned early in one’s career, the school makes the student with the school’s hope the student makes the school later on. So ultimately, career performance depends upon the individual with the college creating initial opportunities.
Today, UTD “is” a prestigious school with identical ACT scores as UT-Austin. Seems UTD offered what both your sons needed and desired. Good for them!
I have 5 kids who all wanted to go away to college, so none ended up at UTD. Three opted for a state school less competitive (ACT scores) than UTD (strategic move as being pre-med they needed a 3.9 - 4.0 undergraduate GPA at a T1 Research school plus ample time to study for the MCAT, and not attend a heavy premed school like UTD, Hopkins, WashU, Yale, or flagship state schools, UT-Austin included). The strategy worked for them as 2 are at T25 and one at T50 med schools, all without gap years. My 2 youngest are/will be attending different ivy league schools, both with generous need-based aid packages close to the full tuition/full ride my 5th received at two T25 schools, 1 public, 1 private. The public one’s financial package was similar to the McDermott but without the strings. She had a very hard time turning it down for the top ivy. Her friend at another local high school, also received the McDermott but turned it down for full tuition (1/2 on merit, 1/2 on need) at a T25 heavy premed school like UTD. He actually received the same merit full tuition at the private T25 my daughter did.
Based upon the other recipients (they stay in touch today via following each other on Instagram) my D met at the “sell / admit weekends” for heavy scholarship recipients, about 1/2 the recipients on average at such schools declined their scholarships. So your S was not alone.
I know 1/2 turning these down sounds shocking (to me anyway) but these kids get multiple great offers, yet can only accept one, leaving room for many alternates to receive the award. Based upon my kids’ results, I have a feel for what level of achievement an applicant needs for the McDermott, and what is under or overkill. In reviewing my kids’ scholarship and admission offers, one needs more than my oldest kids but less than my youngest to youngest two.
Exemplary grades and scores get one admitted to a T50 college, without guarantee of a scholarship. To secure a heavy scholarship or admission to a T20 college, one needs more. Aside from community service, leadership, activities, sports, they need to show impact on people or the community in some way. State-level competition placement in something seems very helpful. National is better. International level in more than one activity, like my youngest, is even better. She was the only one from her district to compete in a 3rd activity at the state level. All 3 non-sport activities were in different years of high school. (she’s not a robot), and she didn’t have time to continue her varsity sport in 12th grade. I feel admission standards are beyond crazy at the T20 level but she has expanded her network by meeting accomplished students through her admit weekends. This has also exposed me to another segment of society I would have never seen.
I can see my 4th not liking where my older kids attended and vice-versa. We spent considerable time in college selection. I feel each selected a college which worked well for them. Seems your sons did too.