Met a girl over spring break

<p>I met this girl I really like over spring break, and we both really like each other and we kinda hit it off over the 1 week we were together. We don’t live too far apart, only a couple hours, but my parents already said no to me driving down to meet her even if it was just for an afternoon and if they came with me. We’re both sophomores, will be juniors next year, and like I said, we both really like each other. We’ve kept in touch since spring break, and I know its ridiculous to try and have a long distance relationship based off a 1 week foundation and knowing we won’t see each other for a long time, probably til college. Does anyone see any other option other than just forgetting about it?</p>

<p>lol…ONLY a couple hours</p>

<p>suggestion: get AIM.</p>

<p>Its about 2 hours</p>

<p>get out more</p>

<p>lol. get an instant messenger, but don’t have too high hopes. long distance really doesn’t work very well.</p>

<p>meet someone else.</p>

<p>I’d say, unless you can figure out a way so that the two of you can see one another every so often, a long distance relationship with her probably isn’t an option. Particularly if your parents are deadset against it. That doesn’t mean, however, that the two of you can’t be friends… like several other posters have suggested, AIM is brilliant for that.</p>

<p>your in high school, there should be tons of other things to do and ppl to see then being obsessed with her.</p>

<p>you can be friends i guess but not worth the trouble to pursue a relationship unless you can be friends with benefits.</p>

<p>Yeah, thats what I had figured, I was just wondernig if there was another option I had overlooked. Oh well, its not like a big loss, we didn’t know each other very long.
Thanks for the input everyone</p>

<p>You can’t drive?..</p>

<p>yeah, long distance does NOT work out. my sis and her boyfriend live on opposite sides of the world, and time changes does not help at all…</p>

<p>I can drive, but for obvious reasons my parents dont want me going alone, and they don’t want to go with me. They really just want me to forget about her, which is reasonable, I was just looking for any other ideas before I do. Like I said, its not that big of a deal, but it’d be cool if we could be together.</p>

<p>with the price of gas now days, it will be a huge expense.</p>

<p>I’ve done this, with a girl I met over summer.</p>

<p>Still doing it, I’m very unhappy, but kinda in love.</p>

<p>w o w… u need 2 get out more.</p>

<p>spring break, summer, etc, is for ****ing around
just dont get attached i guess
lesson learned…</p>

<p>I say definitely keep in touch with her. Chat online, talk on the phone, send each other letters, webcam, etc. Since you hit it off and the attraction is mutual, give it a try. Even if it does not work out now, maybe it will later on. Just trying to forget about it will be difficult, plus you might keep on wondering “what if?”</p>