<p>They all go out every weekend partying, out to eat, shopping, or just hanging out. They never bother to invite me anymore because I have refused before since I was studying for SATs. I feel like I’m the only one stuck at home studying for APs and ACTs and SATs & they are out having fun all the time.</p>
<p>I feel even worse when they post pics on Facebook or when one asks me why I didn’t go, and I have to awkwardly say I wasn’t invited.</p>
<p>Do you think you weren’t invited because you refused to go on outings in the past? I mean you said it right there. If your friends don’t think you’re available they won’t ask. Make yourself available and remember they are your friends.</p>
<p>Try inviting them to do something, show them you want to hang out with them.</p>
<p>I would gather them all together at school or something and apologize for not being there for them while you were studying. Then they should go back to inviting you out. If not, invite them somewhere.</p>
<p>Hang out with them before they go out. And then go w/ them.</p>
<p>Stalk the ringleader, wait outside his house until he goes somewhere and then get in the car.</p>
<p>^Yes. Hide in their car trunks.</p>
<p>I kinda had the same problem with my friends in the past few months, exactly the same actually because I focused so much on school
Now that its my second semester of senior year and I don’t really need to worry anymore, I started inviting them places, talking to them more, being more interactive (you see where I’m going), and sooner or later, in a matter of a few weeks, we were back to normal and I go out almost every day with them
Take the advice of interacting with them more and inviting them places. Basically, subtly remind them that you weren’t dissing them and you’re still here.</p>