<p>From what I’ve seen, alooknac, that is just what happens. Once kids get to college, I think they can really start to segregate, but in boarding school, they’re thrown together in dorms, in sports, in small classes, and the diversity of views and backgrounds–and the discovery of the way they are the same–is all for the good. I can’t read this thread over without MLK’s “content of their character” ringing in my ears.</p>