Never Give Up: A Transfer Success Story

<p>I wasn’t sure which forum to post this in, but I chose the MT forum because it is where I started</p>

<p>Last year I auditioned for 8 colleges hoping to major in musical theatre and I was rejected from every single one of them. As you can imagine, it was a heart breaking experience. I had gone through 3 vocal teachers, worked for months with an acting coach on my monologues, practiced every single day, filled out all the applications, traveled to various cities, and ended up with a pile of rejection letters…</p>

<p>Fortunately, I had applied to a few schools with BA programs, and I turned up enrolling at a large state school with a BA program that had a large emphasis on Musical Theatre. However, 2 Months into my freshman year I realized that the BA program was not right for me. I felt I wanted the rigor and intensity of BFA program, musical theatre or not. I just remember lying in bed one day, thinking about all the young actors my age going to conservatory programs who were acting every single day… while I was only taking 1 acting class 2 days a week because that was all that was available. I had also read Stanislavsky’s “An Actor Prepares” and I was very inspired to learn acting in a classic, conventional method. </p>

<p>It was at that point I decided that I had to go through the process again, this time going from BFA acting programs. However, I cannot say that at first I hesitated. My mom and I had gone through the huge application and audition process before and it was filled with tiresome hours, great anxiety, and many tears. But I couldn’t let my past bring me down, I had to give it a shot even if I were to be rejected again. So I filled out all of my applications once again, and headed off to Unifieds. </p>

<p>My first year going to college auditions, instead of focusing on the objectives of my character, I focused more on hoping that the auditors would like me. Obviously, that detracted from my ability to show off my true potential as an actor. I also had picked material that didn’t show off my strong points. But this year, things were going to be different. I picked monologues that really allowed me to show who I was, and I entered each audition not caring what the judges thought about me, but what my character wanted in each monologue. I didn’t do anything for the judges, I did it for myself, because acting is what I love to do. I didn’t allow auditions to become a whole arduous, awful, nerve-wracking process. I made them fun for myself. I even did 5 or 6 walk-ins just to keep myself in character and in practice. </p>

<p>And what do you know? A month or so later I learned that I had been accepted into my top 3 schools of UNCSA, UMiami, and UArts. Obviously, this caused my mother and I to cry with happiness, but of course, for a different reason this time around. Anyway, the reason I decided to post this was to let anyone who turns up in a place that they don’t think benefits them as much as another program would to not give up. In this business, and in life in general, you can never give up, or you will always regret not giving it another shot. I can now say that I have no regrets, because this September I will be attending University of North Carolina School of the Arts and I could not imagine a more perfect place for me. And although I can’t say my fairytale story will happen for all those who seek to transfer, I am living proof that perseverance and dedication can take you a very long way, and I strongly encourage anyone who is ever rejected in any situation to get back on their feet and keep fighting. Never give up.</p>

<p>To finish this amazingly long post, I would just like to thank all of you for the helpful information, and support, that who have given to me and my mom (Tranquil) over these past two years. The college audition and application process is very tolling, and this forum has made it so much easier. My mom really helped me through all of this, and I could never thank her enough for her love and support, and her refusal to give up on me. And I would just like to thank you for supporting her as she supported me. </p>

<p>Thank You.</p>

<p>Wow this is an inspiring story and heartfelt. You make such good points --perserverance of course, but most important to keep focused on the artform…having fun with it, the love of acting, practicing your craft rather than worrying about what auditors want or impressing them. You have obviously really matured through this process and your experience will make you even more ready to handle the auditioning process that you will face out in the business. Congratulations for your current success, for what I am sure will be some future success and for never giving up on your dreams. Have a great year–hope your new school turns out to be everything you hoped for.</p>

<p>I second the Wow! What a wonderful and inspiring story and how good of you to share it. I am so very happy for you, heartiest of congrats! What you have learned in this long and most difficult of processes will only enhance your life.</p>

<p>What an inspiring story! You passed along some wonderful points - that obviously were successful. I am SO very happy for you!!</p>

<p>Congratulations! You have that rarest of all gifts—objectivity. I won’t wish you good luck, because you are the kind of person who makes his own luck, but I will wish you godspeed in your journey.</p>

<p>you sir</p>

<p>are the bomb diggity</p>

<p>In a field where rejection is the norm you have learned the most important lesson of all…it doesn’t have to be final. Perserverance and determination will win in the end. Thank you for sharing!</p>

<p>Inspring. Congratulations and all the best in your future.</p>

<p>Awesome story. There are so many life lessons in this one post it could have been listed under a number of different threads! Keep us posted Son of Tranquil…yours will no doubt be a story of success.</p>

<p>Son of Tranquil,</p>

<p>I am guessing that the drive and persistance that helped you find this success will also help you find success in your career. You have heart and gumption! It is a great story. Enjoy your studies and keep us informed of your achievements.</p>

<p>S of T,
Good luck on the next step of your wonderful journey. So happy for you.</p>

<p>Good for you! I’m sure it all means so much more to you having to go the route you did. You will certainly have quite a story to tell when you are interviewed by Playbill someday!</p>

<p>Congrats! You’ve reaffirmed what I’ve been telling my daughter for years now…if at first you don’t succeed (in getting into your first choice in colleges), try try again! This story is inspirational. Thank you so much for sharing.</p>

<p>Whoa…are you ever prepared for the theatre life, with all its ups and downs! VERY HAPPY for your good fortune! I hope UNCSA is all you want it to be.</p>

<p>Thank you all for your kind words and support, I will be sure to keep you updated.</p>

<p>Your success is sweeter because it didn’t come easy. I am certain that you are going to make your dreams come true! No doubt about it! Way to go!</p>

<p>Nice! Break a leg this fall!</p>

<p>Transferring does work!</p>

<p>I have a story about a friend…</p>

<p>Last year auditioned for 8 schools for Acting and did not get callbacks or accepted into ANY of them. All of her closest friends got into good schools and she went to a BA program instead. She decided she still wanted it and tried again.</p>

<p>Now, she is accepted to Carnegie Mellon, NYU, and other amazing schools where a year ago she thought she would stop acting.</p>

<p>NEVER GIVE UP!</p>

<p>Nice to hear, tom! Good luck to your friend!</p>

<p>Then again everyone, this whole process is very “shady.” There is no “equation” for it. No reason. It seems that in the end it take 10% talent and 90% luck. What time you audition, what you wear, who they see before and after you, if you have the opportunity to make and impact on the auditors, your material… etc etc etc etc etc etc. SO many things factor into this that you simply cannot even control. Likewise, I found that my best auditions were the ones where I was interviewed and able to share aside of myself during, these auditions allowed me to make a positive and strong individualistic impression on the auditors… and what do you know? Those are the schools I was accepted at! Every school that didn’t talk to me afterward or in a way blew me off from the minute I walked in the door - I ended up not getting into. Some auditions do not give you the opportunity to show your true self, some think they see it but they don’t, some just don’t know what they are missing… It is all SO messed up. It makes no sense. Everyone just has to stay positive. I admit that I too would’ve been devastated if I was not accepted to any BFA program I auditioned for… BUT NOW that I think about it after all this has happened… IT REALLY ISN’T AN INDICATION OF A LACK OF TALENT AT ALL.</p>