Sincerely curious as to what response by the young women is expected by the “won’t serve” crowd. OP stated they live in a remote area and the visitors are flying in without access to cars. So it would be preferable for the women to hang out at a far away bar and hope for an uber or a ride home? Surely being on the streets is far riskier. Or do you expect them to rent a hotel room for all of them downtown that night? Or are they supposed to BYOB and go outside in the cold at midnight to toast? Assuming they don’t expect to sit in front of the tv with cocoa, what is the proposed Alternative?