There seem to be a lot of assumptions being made, MaryGJ, about the dau and her relationship. Anyone remember the “old days” of bachelor parties where a female would be brought for "fun " before the wedding? Some may have strayed but id didn’t mean the marriage/relationship was dead. We dont know, nor is it our place to, the specifics about what the dau did and what led up to her decision to cancel the wedding. It was probably the right decision, but cutting her family off may have more behind it than we know. Maybe many of the posters would feel differently if there was more to the story shared that changed opinions, but for now, with what we are told, most here will be supportive of the mom and her feelings.