agree with @gardenstategal . I found as a volunteer, that some families did NOT want to be contacted at all. I found others that really used the contact as an important part of their decision making.
If it is not offered by the school outright-- definitely ask. I don’t think it is a poor reflection on the school if they do not offer - it is just a different approach. But I do think everyone is trying to adjust to the no “Revisit Day” situation and providing this option now may have escaped some schools who usually would have had a mentor student and their family provide such interaction in person during that day.
AND – do not hesitate to reach out to people on this forum. For all of you who are here-- trust me. I will be reaching out to you, should we get good news from a school you are affiliated with!