<p>Last year about this time, I told my family that we would be moving to Mexico (a lot worse than China, I think) because of this great work opportunity for me. My younger daughter was a sophomore in high school. She initially told me it was fine with her until she visited the city. It was not pretty and not very safe. </p>
<p>As an expat, we were given an option of 1) letting our kids go to a boarding school in the US, 2) paying for a private school at the host country. OP, you could ask your dad if it’s an option for you to go to a boarding school in the US. If your dad is going to keep your house (hence you would be a tax payer), could you continue to go to your current public school.</p>
<p>My daughter decided to move to Mexico with us. We enrolled her in an international school here. Classes are taught in English, but kids speak Spanish outside of class. Not going to lie, she cried the first 2 weeks of school. I took her back to the States a few times to help her with home sickness, each time she just got better and better. Now 4 months later, she loves it here. She made some great friends, both local and expats. We have great housing (she has her own suite), we have a maid who looks after her (no more cleaning her room or doing her own laundry), and a driver to take her where ever she wants to go. Another thing here is the drinking age is 18, not 21. They throw some great parties at clubs, not at someone’s basement.</p>
<p>When she applies to colleges next year, she will be read as an international (less competition). I think because of her international experience, she will be more competitive as an applicant. Because we are retaining our state residency (we are still paying taxes), she is able to compete for our state’s summer programs and other activities.</p>
<p>Our promise to our daughter was she would be going to a college in the US. This is just a temporary living arrangement for her, kind of like study abroad. She asked me if we would let her go to her old school junior prom. We told her if she could get a date :), we would buy her a dress and a plane ticket home. Guess what? She is not talking about it any more. She is more focused on her new school’s “Oscar Night,” “Fashion Night,” and their Prom.</p>
<p>My firm has a large expat community in China and HKG. They are very well taken care of. In general, their standard of living is usually higher overseas than in their home country. OP, I wouldn’t be surprised if you should be able to live very well.</p>
<p>Before you go, try to get SAT tutoring lined up. I engaged someone before we moved, and my daughter is doing all private tutoring via Skype. She also has a private college counselor to guide her.</p>
<p>Good luck. Please speak with your parents about all of yoru concerns. At the end of day, we really do want our kids to be happy.</p>