<p>Hey, limmering. It’s 12:11 AM here and I’d originally intended on surfing through some fun posts on HSL before going to bed. I saw your post and I felt that I should take 30 minutes to share some experience with you. If you’ve noticed, my time zone is BJ/HKTm which means I live in China. Almost four and a half years ago, I moved here from California and I know what you’re going through. You love your life in America and the fact that your parents want you to go to China is probably very sudden. You’re most likely afraid that you won’t be able to get along with Chinese students and/or keep up with the curriculum. You’re definitely freaking out about this whole thing because you wouldn’t make a thread otherwise. I was in the exact same situation as you - terrified and confused. What’s worse, I went to an all-Chinese school… Talk about crazy.</p>
<p>If you can’t get out of going to China, just forget about studies, college, making friends and all that stuff for a while. Consider this: if you were born again, but in China instead, you would still be yourself right? You could tell the same jokes, only in a different language, think the same things, want the same things, love the same people. In the end, the only things that change about you are the language you speak, the people in your life and the place you live.</p>
<p>Sorry if that paragraph kind of digressed… My point is, moving to China isn’t the end of the world, nor is it a sure sign that you’re going to be miserable. You might not go to your senior prom, but you might run into something, or someone, even more memorable than a prom. China is enormous. I’ve gotta say, it’s been four and a half years and even today I’m not sick of living here. In China, almost anything can happen. You can hit rock bottom today and be on top of the world tomorrow; I’m dead serious. With time, you’ll love the huge plazas filled with tens of thousands of people, the McDonalds and KFCs every 200 yards, and the breakneck speed with which modern Chinese culture develops. Sure, it’s gonna be tough at first, but I think it was all worth it. I mean, I’m pretty darn good at Chinese, I’ve managed to make a ton of friends and hey, it’s a good story to bring home to America. To me, China isn’t on another continent - it’s the side of America I never had a chance to experience.</p>
<p>I know I’ve said a lot of crap about China’s education and whatnot, but to be honest China was the best thing to ever happen to me.</p>
<p>The past few posts have been about the great firewall of China, so I’ll address that as well. You can’t go on youtube, facebook or twitter (and a lot of other popular sites) but what’s interesting is that a lot of Chinese people in TW and HK download youtube vids and upload them onto Chinese equilvalents of video broadcasting sites such as Tudou, Youku and Ku6 (I think that’s the name…) If all else fails, there are plenty of cheap proxy and VPN services you can use to disable the GFW, albeit slowing down your connection speed.</p>
<p>Hmm, as for teens here, they’re mostly brainwashed by the government. Jk, haha. They’re DEFINITELY not as rebellious as teens in America but they’re not compliant to the point of being dead inside. I personally enjoyed hanging out with Chinese kids because we have a lot in common (as do all Chinese nerds, lol). The Asian nerd stereotype is very common, but it’s not discriminated against so people just call them “good students”. Chinese students don’t believe in ECs. In other words, they participate in very few ECs. More often than not, “good students” spend all 3 years of high school studying.</p>
<p>Wow, it’s late. I’ve been rambling on for over 40 minutes… I’m off to bed. If some of what I wrote doesn’t make sense, it’s only because I’m tired
I hope you can make some use of this post in your decision. To summarize: China’s not a bad place and it’s definitely not some kind of scary academic asylum.</p>