Parents of the HS Class of 2009 (Part 1)

Ran late leaving for a client today as good friend called to talk about his father’s recent death.
It has been on my mind lately that I would be a first at an accident.
I was two cars behind the 18 yr old who caught her tire on the edge of the ditch and went every which way with smoking car and tires and gravel. I saw the entire thing and begged out loud that she not hit a tree.
Thankfully the car hit a short stone wall with the tree about 3 feet in. She got out right away. In shock. Car totaled.

The two women in front of me (around 30) ran up to her and I called, or tried to call, 911. I got the recording and then said “911” and then! the phone rang 3 really long rings. I gave up, figuring one of the others had called (they were on the phone with 911).

911 is suppose to call you if you abort a call. Think heart attack, choking, being held by a gunman.

No call. Very disturbing overall.

Wow just tried to post something and it didn’t show up at all…

KMC - I figured I owed H. When I broke my leg and needed a bone graft it was 16 weeks non weight bearing. He had to do everything and the kids were still home then. :slight_smile:

Oregon - scary that 911 didn’t return your call. Also scary about the accident although good to know that no one was hurt.

Wow oregon, glad all are ok. Is there some way you can let your local emergency providers know about the 911 recording?

arabrab and shaw - so neat that you met!

KMc- continuing the healing wishes for your H. That’s for you, too.

Thinking of you all! Heading back to the lake for another meeting with contractor to correct a roof leak! It never ends.

oregon…thank heavens everyone is ok!

kmc…sending the healing mojo to mch!

Yes, best of luck in healing. Now staying with the ex-wife of my yoga rabbi friend. They have an extremely ADHD son who can never get his meds to work – he has to take them all the time when he is in school and ultimately shuts down physically (stops sleeping, gets hives, etc.). He’s now teaching English in Asia and seems to be handling himself well. But, he is gearing up to get a PhD in a soft-ish social science. He’d have to go back on the meds. I was hoping she could coach him to play to his strengths.

Getting ready for my goodbye lunch - last day at the Corporation. In other news, the proposal is happening tonight. Eventful day.

How exciting mp!

Wow, how long were you there? Does your commute worsen now?
Good Luck tonight and am sure you will wow them.

Has S popped the question yet?

mp – By “proposal,” you mean S asking GF, right? How exciting! Details please. And how do you feel to be finished at the corporation?

kmc – sounds like a great invention. Hope your H’s healing/recovery is progressing nicely.

oregon – glad the young lady was OK. Doesn’t give you much confidence in the 911 system, though, does it? And the woman who isn’t going to be your D’s MIL? Pretty sure I wouldn’t want to ever go out to dinner with her.

We went to the opening night performance at the Newport Jazz Festival last night. We got the “cheap” seats in the end section of the grandstands, just as we did last year. IMO these seats are actually better than most of the pricey ones on the flat surface in front of the stage. If you’re more than a few rows from the front, the view isn’t all that great. It’s all outside at the International Tennis Hall of Fame – and it was a lovely evening.

D and her BF are arriving later today for the weekend – which promises to be perfect for chilling at the beach.

Happy weekend folks :wink:
Just checkin in quick before getting ready for guests. Missy, don’t keep us hanging…how did the proposal go?

Nm, sorry about your roof. Two houses = double trouble sometimes it seems. I can’t really complain in my situation, though, as my repairs are a write-off. I am jealous that my tenant is getting new garage doors and I’m not!

My treat was going to be a sprinkler system with drip irrigation for my terrace by the pool as the nearby spigot is softened water (for the pool, to combat metals in well water.)

But my treat is getting deferred to keep more cash on hand for medical bills now. We have decent coverage (that costs $1120 a month, mind you) but with 3000 deductible and 12k out of pocket, in a year like this the whole ticket for coverage and OOP ends up at $30,000. I miss Canada :wink: And now I’m not even allowed to vote there anymore after a court of appeals decision about ex-pats! Harper has to go!

Mcson and gf are making the trek to the nearest ikea today to furnish her new apt. They’re also getting a cat :wink: I’ve suggested we’d like joint custody of the cat (in the pool house). Mch is allergic, but there are some chipmunks who need to learn to be a bit more afraid of encroaching on my deck area :wink:

Mch is doing well for a one-armed old guy, and put in a normal work week despite adversity. He really is quite good at soldiering on, I must say :wink: mcson had friends over last night who were having a captivating debate with mch about his “od- crankiness”, generational intelligence differences, quantum physics, and aliens. It was entirely entertaining. Might have had something to do with the “get well scotch” a friend of ours brought mch on Thursday…

missypie, can’t wait for a report!

CBBBlinker, I’ve toured the International Tennis Hall of Fame - beautiful location!

arabrab, enjoy being stuck at home today!

Well, lest I think my life is too charmed, yesterday afternoon we attempted to take care of a few items, and we failed at every single task. Also got horribly lost and our phones all died. Basically nothing went right. But we’re still alive and will get to try again. At one point I wanted to cry, literally. Nothing like several hours of stress to remind yourself that your life isn’t normally that stressful.

S came home Wednesday from his study abroad program, and got to join us on the miserable adventure. We did have a nice dinner together at the end.

She said yes…of course.

Son has been stressed for quite a while, as the proposal is supposed to be a big deal these days and Son is just not that guy. I suggested returning to the restaurant of their first date. Great food, nice décor, but not table service. Here is what happened. Younger D and I have wanted to have a girls’ night out with GF to see the new Magic Mike. I said that it was the perfect time because I was expected to leave early on my last day…the three of us could go to the movie early and still have time for her to do something with Son.

We picked GF up; she was dressed real cute, of course she expected something. But what she expected was for us to drive her to wherever Son was. She was very surprised that we actually went to the movie and determined that it really was just a girls’ night out. Then I asked if everyone was hungry and I suggested the first date place. We entered, Son was waiting with flowers and candles at a table. H was there and so were her parents. Son had a nice speech which he and GF kind of giggled through.

We were all prepared to leave but Son and now Fiancé said to stay. We all got food, Fiance’s dad bought a bottle of wine, the manager comped the meals of Son and Fiance. It was all sweet and there was enough there for Fiance to have a story to tell her friends.

I’m pretty sure that the date she and her mom have settled on is the wedding date already chosen by a friend of ours (the same crowd would be invited to both weddings.) Also, we have to finesse around the truth that as a guy with Asperger’s, Son does not have male friends to be in the wedding party, ushers, etc. His sisters will stand up with him, but there are only two of them. Uncles can be ushers.

c-q, after a day like that, I tell myself that no one is dead or in prison, so it’s all good.

My departure was low key. They took me to lunch.

I, on the other hand, brought a huge bowl of little cookies from a great place; I brought gifts to the two paralegals; I brought very creative gifts to the 6 attorneys in my group.
I had a lot of work to get done but needed to leave to start the engagement process. SO, in my distracted state, I left the documents I most needed to work on on the hard drive, and made sure my office door was locked and gave away the key. YIKES. My entry badge still works, so I am going to try to go in and look in a secretary’s desk to find a key. Otherwise, I will have to wait until Monday morning to get someone to go in there.
I really wanted to get that document out today, as I sort of neglected it yesterday.

Thanks for the re-cap, mp! Very sweet. Sorry about the forgotten items.

Yes, I told H this morning at least no one got hurt. I do have a blister on my foot, but it could have been worse.

Congratulations to your son and his fiancé (and to you). The proposal sounds great ! Just the right touch and very sweet. Can you be honest with the fiancé and her mother about the potential conflict with the date? If many of the same group would possibly be invited to both weddings, the bride’s family may want to avoid that as well.

Just confirmed with the other mom that there is no conflict. Whew!

Great, glad there is no conflict.

@FallGirl, You asked to let you know if we liked the bed and breakfast near Shenandoah National Park that we went to for our anniversary. It was great, very nice area, great owners and a very nice breakfast. We couldn’t get cell phone service there though (but there was free wifi which is more important to me anyway). And a nano-brewery onsite which was very cool. Hopkins Ordinary.

Lovely story mp.
cq, I am dying to know what the destinatin was to be when you got lost.
Also, will you be at the LAS reuion this Sept.?

Oregon, we were trying to find the DMV so we could register our cars. H thought it would be “easier” to drive, plus was concerned that one of the items we might need was the actual car being registered. Traffic was horrific, so H had me hop out and try to get there on the subway while he and S continued driving (google maps said it would be faster). Except that when I went into the subway station, my phone stopped working and I couldn’t get the directions to figure out what stop to get off at. We were trying to get there before it closed. I asked some people on the subway where I should get off and as a result got off about 10 blocks too soon. I tried getting an Uber but there were no cars in the area. So I kept walking, but the street I was on (the street of the DMV) suddenly was interrupted by a park and I had to take a detour and after that I couldn’t find the street again.

Meanwhile, H and S were driving around also trying to find the DMV. They found it, but I wasn’t there yet, and it was after closing. Next task was them trying to find me. And my phone was dying.

They found me eventually, and we made our way to another DMV about 30 blocks away that had a later closing time. Traffic was still awful, so I ended up hopping out of the car and walking/running the last few blocks while H and S parked the car. I got in line and H & S joined me. We finally got to the counter with our file folder full of documents, and discovered that we were missing not one, but multiple items that were not mentioned on their website. We had insurance documents, bill of sale when we purchased our vehicles in 2012, registration from our prior state, the NY registration forms completely filled out, our proper ID, etc.

The DMV trip was AFTER H tried to register to be a marriage officiant, again with a file folder full of documents, only to find out he needed additional documents.

It was BEFORE S tried to go to his scheduled eye appointment. However, the confirmation email contained the physical address of a different location, not the location where his eye appointment was. This also involved his phone dying, finding the correct location (S taking the subway while H and I drove there) and not being able to communicate by phone. They ended up rescheduling his appointment.

I think I will be at the LAS reunion (for others, we discovered oregon101’s H and I attended the same school overseas and I knew his family). I need to verify with my boss - I told her about the reunion, and she thoughtfully scheduled me to be in the office (where the reunion is) the days following the weekend reunion, so I can fly there on business.

Oh cq, what a time you and your family had! I believe things come in three’s and yours sure did!
Hope to see you in Sept.