Parents of the HS Class of 2009 (Part 1)

That is right! Not sure how I could have forgotten. Yes D’s is the 16th.

I reached out to the caterer yesterday about next steps. I think we are looking fairly good. We have her dress, bridesmaids are picked and I think both are ordered, we have looked at flower girl dresses but since it’s my GD and she isn’t even a year yet we are waiting on ordering that, we have her headpiece (just a comb really), she is doing a trial run on her hair in 2 weeks to get an idea of how she wants it, we have the gluten free cupcakes, florist was just done, have the DJ, she knows what they want for tuxes but they haven’t done anything about it yet, block of rooms are reserved. Not sure yet what we are forgetting to do!

Now that they have done the engagement picts I think they will get the save the dates done soon. Hopefully in the next couple of weeks.

OOOH! All this wedding talk is exciting!

Good morning! Sevmom, I told mcson that one of my “grown up cyber friends” had the same thing happen so to stop blaming himself :wink:

He feels bad that he’d tried to go that block after the brake lockup until he pulled over and called the tow truck. I don’t know that I’d have done any differently. The mechanic’s shop was two blocks away. The time belt had less than 10,000 miles on it as he’d had it and the water pump replaced in the summer. Its hard to know cause and effect in these things.

Unintended consequences seems to be the theme around here this week to a comedy of errors level. I had the half-baked notion to update mch’s vintage diningroom set (a large Tobias scarpa glass table with square chrome sling chairs) via guerrilla-DIY shenanigans after getting two obscene pro quotes ($1350 and $2200 respectively.)

So all I wanted was to change the slings, and how hard could it be, right? Lol. So I bought several yards of contract (eg healthcare upholstery grade) vinyl, unbolted all the pieces of the chairs to remove the old slings, and cooked up a plan with my formerly favorite local seamstress. She did a test set that worked great. So imagine my surprise when I picked up all six last weekend and the top sling was an inch oversized…not usable because the 2.25" chrome tube ends at the top well before the back sling. (Her underling had misundstood the instructions.)

She was only willing to correct them, which due to the material that’s doubled front and back, i felt would weaken the seam (perforation). So I bought another bolt of the vinyl and somewhat unhappily paid to have them redone rather than risk the load-bearing integrity of the first incorrect set.

What could go wrong, right? I wrote down the measurements again, showed the underling what was wrong, gave him both backslings…the original and the one that was an inch too tall, showed him 7 pctures of th chair and explained how they reassembled, etc. so he’d know what he was making and why it had to be right.

So last night, mch picks them up while I’m running errands because we have company coming in this weekend and need the chairs in order…and the little idiot got the height right but now the loop section where they slide onto the chrome posts is a quarter inch too small for the 2.25" posts.

Seriously.

First world problem born of my own mucking about and frugality, I know, but really?

After a very unfruitful phone call to the proprietor, who insists they are correct (I have evidence contrary because unlike her employee I can read a freakin tape measure) McH and I used soap and a huge screwdriver to stretch-slide the vinyl onto the posts and call it done for the moment :wink:

I don’t have the energy for these small battles this week.

Then I go out to the pool house for something and discover that my 95 degree physiotherapy done covered pool has dropped to 84 degrees. I hadn’t used it that morning because it was my now 4 am morning for a standing 6:45 am weekly meeting, but my automation system was supposed to have heated it back up to 95 overnight. Couldn’t recreate whatever error cased it not to have turned on, so I turned it back on and left it to run up overnight.

By this point, I needed to relax so I asked Alexa to play me some new age meditation music, but she decided to go on strike and I spent the ensuing part of my evening reconfiguring the idiot device.

At this point, I’m fully aware of the irony of my relationship to technology and the brave new world level oppression I’ve come to love…:wink:

It seems I can be easily unhinged by an EMP or inference engine :wink:

I’m almost afraid to check the hot tub…

KMC - thanks for that post! I needed to see some humor this morning and that did it for me!!

Boy do I get it! Last night I just wanted to take some files off of my computer and download them to a stick. Should be simple right? So why did it take me 1/2 hour? My laptop had other ideas and kept bringing up my virus protection sw as it wants me to upgrade. Well I don’t have a computer virus or non has been detected. The SW has been running reliably and once I looked into it I have the latest. They just want me to pay for a version with more features. No big deal right? But it kept popping up - was like the virus scanner SW had a virus.

Fighting a cold now. Thank you H.

Ah…what is going on here? Broke my little toe yesterday. The waiter did not give H back his credit card at a downtown restaurant last night. That was before we went to the Jazz concert and H had booked center seats in very long row and I simply cannot stand the feeling of being penned in…so I left him and a very nice usher offered to let us sit on the stairs but then we did get fabulous seats on an aisle. It was our 35th and he planned an amazing day overall complete with flowers from the florist in town. But really? in 35 years I have not sat in the middle of a concert hall. Glad I am old enough to know myself and did not “tough it out” in misery.

Then there have just been numerous little irritations not worth mentioning.
kmc, just going to blame your Karma on our stuff :wink:

Hope all the bad luck is turning around for everyone and that everyone is feeling better.

I’m more than halfway through my “home alone” weekend and it has been productive, Lots of time to workout, get chores done, etc. Did an 8 mile walk today (I’m training for the Avon 39 in May), cleaned the pantry, got some give away stuff together and scheduled a pickup, etc. I admit that I miss H though especially in the evenings. We usually go out to dinner after church on Sat evening and ordering pickup was not quite the same.

We went to see Trevor Noah last night. he was great and made a lot of sense. I love how comedy highlights the obvious.
My husband went to the boat show and bought a boat. Small one but something to have fun with at the lake. maybe I will ride it over and spy on CBB wedding. JK
I am working on a group project, hate hate hate them. Just checking things off.
One thing about grad school, it has made us all whiners. !

oh yes D1 bought a motorcycle. not a fan…

Hey, @downtoearth - bring the boat on over to the wedding! If you can watch the ceremony from the boat, it means the weather is great and it’s in the outdoor chapel! When people ask me who’s trying to photobomb the pix, I’ll just tell them it’s my friend downtoearth …

Last week I sent an email to D with a list of “reminders” re: wedding things still to be done. I got some answers today, but there are a couple things that should be nailed down pretty quickly – flowers and pies! Looks like we’ll be driving up to NH for some pie tasting in the very near future.

Hope everyone’s luck is on the upswing!

My cold is worse. I know that this too shall pass but drat I really didn’t want / need this!

Baptism/Christening was nice. GD was well behaved as was GS. The water didn’t bother her too much. :slight_smile: Then off to S’s for some food. Spent a bit of time there than home and D, DIL and I went out for foot reflexology where I found out . Wait for it… DIL is pregnant again. :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile: She had to let them know as there was a sign. Still early days. She is due in Oct. So they will have 3 under 3. Yup. Better them than me!!!

I didn’t get anything really done this weekend. Next weekend hopefully. Did get the house clean but that was about it other than S and family came for dinner Sat night as I had made a big pot of spaghetti sauce and meatballs which is one of his favs. So a busy weekend – which is probably why my cold is worse. :slight_smile:

Congratulations RM!

Congrats RM!

Your S and DIL will have their hands full. But speaking as someone who was my parents’ third child in 32 months it was really, really fun to grow up with siblings close in age. We did a lot together.

Wow. Three under 3. Youth. Energy.

Well, that’s impressive! Best wishes and congrats all around RM!

DIL is just 26 – will be 27 in a few months. S just turned 29. I had my first at 27 and I don’t remember having that much energy. I wonder if part of it is that she is a stay at home mom and I always worked full time. Still early days but hopeful that all will go well for them.

Congratulations, RM! They will certainly be busy with 3 young kids. I had both of mine in my 30’s and even 2 kept me busy!

Congrats, RM! Sounds exhausting to me, but I was older and my firstborn didn’t sleep.

@collegequery, I feel the same way. One of my colleagues/friends who is a few years older than me divorced his wife about 10 years ago. A few years later, he married a much younger woman. He now at age 65 or so has a one year old son (he basically said, “Look. I can’t deny a child to a woman her age who so wants to have a child. That was sort of the price of getting married.”) He’s deriving great joy from his son and has the ability to spend much more time with his son than he did with his now grown daughters (who have children a little older than his son). Nonetheless, I am glad not to have a one year old.

Wow, 3 under 3 sounds like zone defense to me, RM. You had better not retire any time soon or you’ll be on respite duty :wink:

Shaw, my stepfather was a bit younger than your friend, but he had two children with my mom well into his 50s and lets just say it kept him on his toes :wink: As the eldest kiddo in the house and a teenager at the time, it kept me on my toes too. Which might explain why I only ever ventured to have ONE :wink:

Back in the day it made for family reunions that would confuse outsiders. My grandmother had a child the same time as my mom had me (and my mom was 25, not like a teen pregnancy or anything) so i am technically five months older than my favorite “uncle”; my step sister has almost four decades on my youngest sibs…which made them aunts to children much older than them; so the family tree is something of a timeline twister!

In other news, whenever I ask myself what fresh hell the week could possibly bring, I usually have a prompt answer, even if its one born of my own egging on.

McH’s “astronomy dome” has finally arrived and with it all manner of instructional text and video that makes no sense to mere mortals. We had guests in from Canada for the weekend and they’d barely pulled outa the driveway before he dove into the hijinx, dragging me along with him.

Given the balmy weather and the realization it was my only shot before they raised the done, found myself painting the 8’ tall platform we’d had built before Xmas, racing against the light. My knee that had been behaving perfectly after months of careful physio ballooned up and has me limping again.

I called the construction guy and begged for oversight before mch kills us both trying to get the partially assembled sections up to the 8’ platform, but he doesn’t know if he’ll free up before temps drop again this weekend.

I’m a heartbeat from renting a cherry picker with safety cage. Mch is balking at the delivery fee. Its a pittance compared to what we spent on the platform construction and dome itself…I can’t believe he didn’t plan out how to get the bloody thing up there. And I’m too freakin busy with work to be mucking with this stuff this week. Nonetheless, found mch out in the dark last night, incorrectly attaching the steel plate to the sliding pieces of dome, staring longingly at the ladder. I’m going to have to watch him like a hawk :wink:

KMC - I have no idea how this will work out. The first 2 are 13 months apart and this one will be 15 months from their 2nd. I can’t really fathom it. I was an only child and we had 2 3 years apart. Even the 2 now baffles me at times. One is always needing a new diaper or needing to be fed it seems. They just recently started going down at the same time even for naps and neither are really nappers - 1 hour tops.

The astronomy dome sounds intriguing. Hope it all comes together okay.