<p>Hello all! I have a lot of reading to do as I have not been here for many days but I thought I would give a quick update.</p>
<p>Daughter seems to be adjusting well. Has had one bout of serious homesickness but is loving college. I have to give a shout out to Ohio State - it is great! It offers so many clubs/opportunities and you can mold it to fit your needs. There is something for everyone and you can really find out who you are I think. A lot of diversity! I was reluctant with her choice but I can see that it was the right one. (So far )</p>
<p>sbjdorlo - happy belated birthday! Sorry your S’15 was a pill (we assume it was all his fault!)</p>
<p>mspearl - goo to hear from you! I’m so glad your D is loving OSU! </p>
<p>amtc - you’re right about thinking on your toes. I actually found myself thinking, “This has to be as good for my aging brain as doing crossword puzzles everyday!” And more fun. :)</p>
<p>Mailing S his tux today – I suggested he bring it, but he didn’t think he’d have any need for it and it would just take up space. Guess what the choir wears? Just like his high school choir . . .</p>
<p>Hi all! I texted a bit with the mom of my son’s RM yesterday (we had exchanged cell #s at move in) and asked her about his campus support. He has told all of his professors so is okay academically but he now has a nasty cold (from all the stress). She was able to have supplies delivered to him through a local delivery service. I hope he feels better soon AND I pray that my DS (a borderline hypochondriac) doesn’t catch it.</p>
<p>I looked up the delivery service online and was very impressed. They will deliver restaurant food, medical supplies, groceries, etc. and are available in a few different cities. Wow, wish they were around when I had the flu my freshman year at BU (although I wouldn’t have had finances to use it)! I am guessing you could now Google delivery service for any college or city and find a few companies that do this.</p>
<p>1 day and counting. Dorm mountain has taken over his and his sister’s room. Today is the day to transfer it into carrying devices. Since H and I are the ones who will actually pack up the car next week, I’m a little worried that some piles will remain for us. Thanks for all of the ideas for additional items, we definitely added to our lists. </p>
<p>It has been a long wait for him and he’s leaving early for the pre-orientation hiking trip tomorrow. In some ways I think we’re all very ready for this new adventure to begin. It’s time to launch the fledgling. I sympathize with those of you who have to wait another week or more. I’m already thinking that next year he/we are going to have to come up with some distractions to make this month go faster. Perhaps he’ll find a job that would love him to work lots of hours this month. </p>
<p>Wishing the best to those of you who have kids who are dealing with difficult situations. It is a big enough transition as it is and adding more to their plates has got to be tough. </p>
<p>Time to stock up on kleenex, my emotions are definitely close to the surface right now.</p>
<p>Being among the first to launch is definitely easier! My sympathies to those with fledglings still in the nest (even if they are not soiling it) late September is still a long time to wait for those that are eager to go and those ready to launch them! I can’t wait to see my S on Saturday with a short semester done and college credits under his belt. Between APs and summer session, he has a full year of college credits! He is hoping to finish in 3 1/2 years and tramp around the world for a while after that, we’ll see how that plan goes…
And Improv class! How cool is that?</p>
<p>You go, PN! I am trying to follow in your footsteps (by doing some new things–improv, however, would kill me!) So far I’ve been wandering around the house looking confused, NOT a new thing. </p>
<p>And Seiclan that was a great idea to be in touch with RM’s parents. I’m sure it helps them to know you and your son are concerned. </p>
<p>PN - so cool about the improv - i would love to do something like that after years of watching my kids on stage. Hopefully i will get up the nerve. I have been going to the gym faithfully and redecorating so that has been keeping me busy.</p>
<p>I am so sorry for all the kids touched by tragedy as they are starting out…my son did say his campus has pulled together and while people were sad, they all helped each other with their grief and now know where to go if they are feeling overwhelmed or need to talk. So out of one family’s sadness maybe some other student will reach out before it is too late,</p>
<p>my son has been so impressed with the breadth and depth of all the activities and choices. He also is amazed at how active everyone is - at his high school there were a handful of kids who seemed to do everything but now he is surrounded by everyone who likes to be busy and involved. He is really happy and it is so wonderful to hear…I think it is amazing how these kids have so many EC’s and still manage all their schoolwork - </p>
<p>we are going to get to see my son this sunday - he will come home for the day for the first night of rosh hashonna - even though it has only been a month we are all so excited to see him and hear about his new life. I am sure the one day will fly by - unfortunately he has all his classes on mondays so does not want to risk getting behind. what is everyone else’s kids who are jewish doing for the holiday?</p>
<p>Can someone add D to the launch list- Her move in date is 9/23
Wordworld-SBA is my favorite airport but I wouldn’t want to spend hours there. My favorite thing about that airport is the ease of getting in and out in minimal time. Before the new terminal opened you could drop your kid at the curb and watch them go through security from your car. If you need any local advice just ask.
Hugs to all the kids and Mom’s who are dealing with sadness. Even knowing your child as only a parent can you don’t always know what is normal homesickness and what is the sign of something more serious to come. When my oldest went off to college we had many uphappy phone calls. We went with the advice to just encourage her to finish out the year. In her case it was more serious and her anxiety lead to a crisis. She was totally ready academically and really wanted to go away but those traits that drove her to do so well in HS were also dangerous. She is one who puts the high expectations on herself. It took a lot of work but she is now happy and a college graduate but we had some rough years.</p>
<p>Parent of a late launcher here. The two of us just did a morning of community service together, followed by sushi lunch (one-and-a-half lunch specials for him, half of one for me ) So there’s a definite upside to the late launching…</p>
<p>Thanks everyone! I came home early today and S has made great progress in packing. </p>
<p>I plan to make his favorite supper tonight and maybe we’ll have time for a last round of hearts or some other fun things. I’m glad we’ll have another chance to see him next week, it doesn’t feel quite so final this way.</p>
<p>PN - good for you for taking that class! It’s high time we all start remembering we were people before we were moms. (and dads) I am starting to golf again - trying to get out this week.</p>
<p>It’s so odd people are still not launched! Is it because the schools are on a quarter system? You’ll probably all be ready to toss them out on to the sidewalk and drive away Actually, we’ll be here for you to let you all know you get through it.</p>
<p>After a few snags, cold feet on the major, “permission” to change major (that wasn’t even declared yet), and “permission” to make a class p/f if necessary, I do believe things are under control and on the right path. </p>
<p>He’ll be home in a few weeks for break! The last few nights we’ve been outside, one night with the firepit and staring at the stars, the next sitting by the pool as d went swimming after a run. We all just chatted and relaxed. On my way in it just occurred to me - we’re going to be okay.</p>
<p>@eyemamom, my S is on a quarter system which is the reason for the late start. I think that’s probably true for the other late launchers as well. At least here in CA it’s not too strange since most of our state schools are also on the quarter system and also have a late start (except for Berkeley). Many of my son’s friends haven’t left yet either.</p>
<p>It’s been quiet the last few days–my DH and S went to upstate NY to visit the in-laws. I stayed at home so that my D wouldn’t have to miss school, but I can’t say I’m too sad about it, lol. I’ve never Skyped before so practiced doing it with my S while he was gone. It was fun, but I wonder how often it will really happen when he’s away at college. He gets back late tonight and then the next few days will be the final gathering and packing of stuff. Yikes, I can’t believe it’s finally almost here!</p>
<p>D managed to figure out how to get to new NYC violin teacher on subway and reported lesson was really good. I went to funeral home visitation for father of S’s friend. His son and daughter seemed good, but who can tell? Heart went out to widow especially. Despite circumstances, it was good to see kids I’d coached in Little League (handsome young men now) and their parents. </p>
<p>PN, based on your roommate’s mom from hell piece, I can easily imagine you doing improv.</p>
<p>If there are BINGO points for Sons, my S is getting one for returning my text today after I mentioned I was thinking about him and hoping his cold was almost over. He sent me a long text describing his recovery process, and I called his cell and he answered immediately. It was so nice to talk to him and he mentioned he has had 2 quizzes so far in one of his classes … first a B and then a change of study approach, and then, an A on next quiz! yay for S. </p>
<p>It is such a good feeling to know he is stepping up to the college challenge. He has so many talents, not all are academic, and I can see him getting a chance to use more of his natural strengths. This cold is just a blip along the way, but I can hear by his voice that he is fighting through the cold to stay on top of all the new challenges. Love that boy.</p>
<p>Parents weekend is only 1.5 weeks away … can’t wait to see him.</p>
<p>Meanwhile, I’m adjusting to my new empty nest life … working harder at work, exercising more, so far so good. (Nope, not as talented as PN to do improv, but when I get to her town I’m going to see her!)</p>
<p>Thanks for all the shout outs for my new hobby! Not sure I’ll be doing any shows anytime soon! It’s really fun though - I’m looking forward to the next class!</p>
<p>S had a cold last week but sounds better now. He’s making one course change. Right now all my ducklings seem to be in pretty good places, so I’m happy too. </p>
<p>PS please don’t tell them I called them ducklings. </p>
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