<p>I think we did our family vacation last summer because BarnardGirl isn’t really coming home this summer. I am kind of assuming that once they are all done with school and I’m no longer paying out all this tuition money, I will pay for us to do some fun vacations- like a family cruise or all inclusive resort- every few years, even once grandchildren are in the mix. </p>
<p>I was super tired last night so I didn’t write much about our Visit The Zoo experience. While Kalamazoo College isn’t discussed a whole lot here on CC, it is definitely the most selective and rigorous LAC in Michigan. They operate on quarters and they were in the book about Colleges that Change Lives. They do draw a lot of kids from the Chicago area- about 2 hours away but there were kids from all over at the ASD yesterday.</p>
<p>It really is a small, very nurturing environment where each student is kind of expected to study abroad (80% do - the other 20% almost always engage in a “study away” experience in the US). They had an alumni panel yesterday with alumni from every decade who are all doing very interesting things including one who went to grad school and got Master’s degrees from both Dartmouth and Columbia. It is the only colllege visit we attended where they had an open house with the department heads from each academic department at tables so students could talk with each one. S14 asked each of the department heads from his areas of interest what kind of research their departments were doing. </p>
<p>He attended a class, which is the first time he has chosen to do that, although other schools did offer the opportunity, they didn’t make it as easy. He went to an Intro Sociology class that a girl he went to high school with is in. He participated in the class discussion and enjoyed it. What he really enjoyed is that every person in the class participated in the discussion. He said it was so refreshing because in his high school, only a handful of kids ever voluntarily participate. </p>
<p>They had a catered lunch, which was disappointing, because we didn’t get to check out the cafeteria. It was a beautiful Spring day though and there were students hanging out, studying together under trees, tossing around a frisbee and being social. </p>
<p>Since it was Easter weekend and we were already there, the girl from our town asked if we could give her a ride home. She had been planning on taking the train. We happily drove her home. She was in BarnardGirl’s section in the band and had hung out with S14’s group before she graduated so we know her pretty well. She gave S14 more insight into student organizations, events that happen on campus, and things like that. She talked a lot about a poetry class she is in now and how a lot of the poets they have studied actually came to class. She also expressed feeling pretty much the same as BarnardGirl and her friend at Wellesley- our high school does not prepare them for rigorous colleges and the writing expectations are a big adjustment. </p>
<p>I did talk to the Director of Admissions and Financial Aid and explained that S14 is down to K and Michigan but that Michigan’s aid part of the package is much lower in loans and family contribution. K’s Lux Esto merit scholarship brings the cost down to the base price of Michigan but the aid packages after that are really disparate. He said I could call the financial aid office and talk with them to make sure they have the all the information they need but he did say they don’t match packages. I mentioned during that conversation he was a Lux Esto scholarship recipient because that is their highest scholarship awarded. We can do K if we have to, it will just be less comfortable and S14 would graduate with more loans (still less than $30K though).</p>
<p>The massive emphasis on Study Abroad is NOT a huge selling point to S14. It isn’t something he’s that interested in but I suspect in this environment, he’d get used to the idea and perhaps embrace it when it is time for him to do it. </p>
<p>K has a pre-orientation program called LandSea where they spend a week backpacking, a week canoeing, two days of “reflection and service” where they can either spend it solo camping or doing a service project and then they also learn technical climbing. They do this in the Adirondacks and this is right up his alley but it is also very expensive so I told him we’d have to figure out how to fund it- through graduation gifts or if he gets a JOB (hard push at this point that S14 needs to work this summer). </p>
<p>So, kids from K do get into Ivy grad schools. Kids from K have many opportunities to work with their professors on research. Kids from K get a lot of nurturing in their early years and a lot of assistance in setting up their study abroad. They all call it “K College”. </p>
<p>There are cons- the price, for one, if they don’t work with us. If they do work with us, will it just be for the first year? Or will they continue to be more generous in subsequent years? That will be an unknown. There’s a good chance we’ll be full pay when BarnardGirl graduates, but he would still have the Lux Esto scholarship as long as he keeps a 2.5. One dining hall and a sandwich shop as opposed to 25 places where you can use your meal card on campus- including the safe bets of Taco Bell, Subway and Wendy’s. As a D3 school, there isn’t a big football program with lots of school spirit as you find in the Big 10. </p>
<p>We visit Michigan on Monday. He has been accepted to the Residential College which is a smaller living/learning community. Many of their RC classes are also smaller, in the same dorm where they live and there is a very strong language and fine arts component.</p>