@midwest67, I have found parenting in the early adult years to be the most difficult and emotional. Who would have guessed? I do suspect things will change for your daughter in the next few years.
D16 is done with everything but one final (and it’s a PDF class, so not too stressful.) I really wonder how she will handle the abundance of unscheduled time that is about to appear. They are still pretty locked down where she is. She is hopeful about a job, and I hope that works out for her.