I’ve been mixed about spelling out D25’s options, but since people tried to help me when I was concerned about making a list, I updated there. You all have seen me through my own emotions once that list was made and acted on, so thank you!
D25 thinks she has the list whittled to four, so we’ll be visiting 3/4 in the next two weeks. (The fourth is a “I’m 60-70% sure I’m going to end up there, so I don’t need to visit again.” These visits sound like they are ruling out more than ruling in.) I think we are all just grateful that she has all her decisions and can move forward.