D26’s decision has realistically come down to four schools. She has acceptances from three of those, and we’re waiting on the fourth (end of this month). It’s a likely for her, but possibly more a target for the particular major she wants. For the purposes of planning, we’re assuming she gets in (even though I’m cringing at that hubris, lol).
One of the schools we don’t need to visit again – she spent a week there for a summer program, so she knows it well enough. Another is thankfully local to us, so it doesn’t require travel plans.
That leaves two. One we’re flying up Feb 20 to go to the admitted students day the following day. We haven’t visited this school – or even been to the city – before, so this was a must-do. I booked these flights and hotel a long time ago, as soon as she snagged an admitted students day spot.
Our local school, we’re doing the admitted students day on Feb 20. Kid then has to drive an hour back to school for play rehearsal, and then we’ll double back to the airport for our flight, getting in around midnight. Not ideal, but what can you do?
The last school we visited in Feb 2025 – the one where she doesn’t have an acceptance yet – so I’ve been waffling on whether we should go back. I’m thinking probably yes, and I’m trying to make it work so that we fly up the previous weekend to visit on Feb 16. She has that day off for president’s day weekend. It’s not an admitted students day, but they are offering a visit of the actual academic department with the ability to chat with faculty, etc.
That way, she’s seeing three of her top four choices within one week, which I think should give her all the info she needs (besides an online deep dive into exact curriculum) to make a decision.
I’m justifying the flight this way – we need to fly to D22’s graduation in May, plus D22 is producing another show this semester, and we want to try to fly out for that Easter weekend. So if D26 doesn’t get into the last school, or she changes her mind, I can cancel the flights and use the credit for a subsequent trip.