<p>Neato—in a loving way…I am in 100% agreement. When Alexz comes home for break I will ask her that question face-to-face. Thanks for brightening up my day.</p>
<p>I spoke to the school psych, after a parent-weekend new student meeting and he informed me that my d’s attitude was very usual. He explained that a lot of kids act this way. Many are very homesick or not homesick at all and are just “stretching the cord.” Trying to show the parents that they are alright. He told me to remember that she is still a teen, and she has responsibilities to me (parent). She could be placed on restriction and the school would support this. If I wanted her to call twice a week or skype on Sundays, I had every right to make that decision and she was to abide by it. I put my foot down, and things have turned out great.</p>
<p>I will admit that on my way back to take her to the house for the last time, I mentioned to her that I was a little hurt that I had come so far and she didnt seem to have much time for me. I told her that I loved her but didnt love her attitude and tone. I made a point to express these feelings and leave her to think about it. (I also informed the house mother and other adults). </p>
<p>By the time I arrived at home, she had called and we talked. Things are better. I believe that my d loves and needs guidelines and boundaries…even from me 950 miles away.</p>
<p>Just my 3 cents.</p>