<p>Not to highjack this thread, but…I was thinking Stockholm too, but looking into it some more, our kids’ demeanor definitely has something to do with Group Dynamics/Group Process. Look it up. In order to be part of a group, you need to define who is in and who is out. Unfortunately, we parents are out. Also, group process explains the phenomenon of why some kids give up their own critical thinking when they join a group and how things like the bullying and facebook scandals can occur. Interesting…this may deserve it’s own discussion at some point.</p>