<p>Does anyone do this? I’ll be having a Graduation Party - - would I send a slip of paper with my invitations saying where I am registered, or is this tacky?</p>
<p>Frankly, I think it’s a bit tacky. Besides, you are likely to get lots of gift cards to places like Target, BB and B, and bookstores anyhow. People realize you’ll need to purchase things for college.</p>
<p>This is tacky. One never alludes to gifts in invitations.</p>
<p>It’s tacky. I get so tired of people who seem to be demanding presents. I prefer cultures like Native Americans who – when individuals have an achievement – the individuals invite their community over to their home and then give their friends gifts including cherished objects. I like the idea of expressing appreciation this way to people who have inspired and supported one to become a success.</p>
<p>The tactful way of handling this is when people call to RSVP, your parents (or whoever is throwing the party for you) can tell them, if they inquire, where you are registered. </p>
<p>I’d never heard of registering for college. While my initial reaction was horror, it’s actually not a terrible idea. People never know what to give graduating seniors…</p>
<p>People always can give gift cards to Bed and Bath, Target, book stores, etc.</p>
<p>It seems to be that the consensus is that it is tacky. Thanks. </p>
<p>I wonder why this is offered on BB and Beyond.</p>
<p>Because they can sell more stuff?</p>
<p>Dragonmom is right. It’s just another marketing tool.</p>
<p>I might use the registry just to organize what I think I need to make my shopping easier. Like a wish list.</p>
<p>That’s a good idea - might help you remember something that you want to pick up later. “hey, that’s where I saw the pop-up hamper for only $10”</p>
<p>Target offers this service as well, but I’m with the other moms: it’s tacky.</p>
<p>Not proper! Maybe for a bridal shower, but you aren’t getting married! </p>
<p>Many friends and relatives give gift cards or money at graduation time, but that is not a requirement. It certainly isn’t a requirement if someone attends a graduation party either.</p>
<p>Don’t do it! You’ll come across as a very self-centered money grubber. Graduation is about celebrating your accomplishments, not for gathering loot.</p>
<p>I echo worried_mom’s sentiments.
It would offend me greatly if I received a graduation notice with a registry card in it.</p>
<p>My daughter didn’t register at BBB , but she did make a list there for things she could purchase here, but pick up at the closest store near her college.</p>
<p>lje62- you probably know this, but in case you don’t: You can select items at your local BBB that will be waiting for you at the store near d’s college. You pick them up and pay for them then (you can change your mind and decide not to buy previously selected items once you 's seen the living situation.) Nice option to have.</p>
<p>Wow, a gift registry for graduation. When did that start? I’ve seen it for weddings of course but never for graduations. I never liked it for even weddings - seems a little presumptuous. So I agree with those who say don’t do it.</p>
<p>I didn’t know people registered for baby showers, too, until quite recently. What’s next? Birthday registers? Christmas? </p>
<p>Bah…humbug! :D</p>
<p>I wouldn’t do it. Frankly I think sending graduation announcements comes across sounding like a bid for gifts.</p>