<p>Paul,</p>
<p>Time to turn up the temperature, because you are being coddled on this board I think it’s doing you a great disservice.</p>
<p>You remind me of a close childhood friend who, while we were younger, was the consummate ■■■■■■■■ artist. He would get distracted by every shiny object, dream about attaining it but was completely unwilling to put in the necessary effort to do so. He was all about cutting corners and looking for angles. The arc of his life has been predictable, and deeply disappointing. He never worked hard, he never achieved. </p>
<p>Make sure that is not you. Your collective posts on CC are alarming to me. Go back and look at them yourself.</p>
<p>In June 2013 as an 8th grader you first shared your plan for getting into Harvard. It involved writing a few novels and publishing research. How has that been going? My guess is you haven’t written a word, let alone a chapter.</p>
<p>In May 2014 you shared that you were barely passing basic Algebra (69), not to mention a 79 in English and a 73 in Accounting, but that it was all going to get better and we all should tell you that you still had a good shot at Harvard.</p>
<p>In June 2014, having not put in the effort to succeed academically freshman year, it was back to the “I’ll write a book” Hail Mary when you asked the group whether writing a 200-600 page non-fiction research book would do the trick. How’s that project coming?</p>
<p>Later in June 2014 you updated us on your already dismal Freshman year grades to tell us that Accounting now was down to a 69 and that you likely would fail the final, and that Algebra was a 69 and you’d likely fail that final too. You also let us know for the first time that you will be a CEO (with a 69 in Accounting!) or POTUS, and sought once again validation that you’re still on track for Harvard.</p>
<p>Still later in June you finally confessed to us that you simply are not good at school, but the plan now is to be a Tailback at Harvard. Never mind that you’re not even a high school varsity starter. Yes, Harvard is actively seeking students who are not good at school. Please.</p>
<p>Since June, the recruited athlete fantasy seems to have taken firmer root in your mind, perhaps mostly because your poor academic performance has not improved at all sophomore year and you’re now considering bailing from your honors/AP courses (too boot, you want everyone to tell you that will be a good thing for your Harvard prospects). So now the gist of your posts are centered on the Academic Index and Likely Letters. Oh, and sending to coaches who have the pick of top national prospects your JV video footage.</p>
<p>Paul, here’s the cold hard truth. Until you get real and stop ■■■■■■■■■■■■ yourself and all those around you, you’re not going to Harvard, Yale or Princeton, let alone any other four year college of much lesser repute. Forget about Harvard – it ain’t happening. But so what? You don’t need a Harvard degree to attain success and you don’t need Harvard’s financial aid resources to access higher education. What you need most of all is a sustained work ethic, less ■■■■■■■■, and an interest in academics that genuine rather than an angels seeking, cynical path to some pipe dream.</p>
<p>These are harsh words for a young person to hear, but I wish they had been said to my childhood friend. You still have plenty of time. You are not going to Harvard. Stop it already. But there is much you still can achieve. Set some realistic goals and go after them. Start small. You claim to like your honors/AP courses. Great, stick with them. Set your goal as getting at least a B on the midterm. Work your ass off to achieve that. A B won’t get you into into Harvard but it’s a good start on a path to success.</p>
<p>Good luck.</p>