<p>Jym626 - your story, too is heart-wrenching.</p>
<p>I am so glad I started this thread. All the stories have been a tremendous help, and all the advice has been wonderful (especially the one about finding the long-term care policy!!! Mom has one - it’s up-to-date because payments are deducted every month - but I haven’t been able to find it yet!).</p>
<p>Having a Power of Attorney is great for dealing with everyone from banks to …well, everyone. But get it before the parent goes completely downhill.</p>